Signs of no interest?

[brns2]

I met 2 new girls on the weekend, both while at a nightclub/pub. Both of them i was quite impressed with (both about 7s) as they initially showed signs of interest but then i just failed with getting the number.

The first girl i got the attention of by teasing her as she walked by. She turned around and we ended up talking for a while before she left. She then returned later with her friend (6) and basically asked straight out for me to buyu them a drink. I was like so do you guys have bfs, and they looked at each other and both replied with yes. So then i was left thinking to myself why would i buy you a drink? and are you just here thinking you can use your looks for a drink?

Later on, I saw another 2 girls sitting by themselfs, one looked hot (about a 6 and a 7.5) So i just went over and sat with them and talked for a while, before asking if they had bfs. The one i wanted was vague and said she was kinda into someone, so i said that didnt sound like much fun and that we should go out. I asked for her number but she said she would facebook me.

I think i made a mistake by asking if they have boyfriends in both scenarios? I think it sounds desperated and i should just assume they dont?

I felt like both scenarios where showing interest (more so the second), but i failed at getting a number both times.

Any tips appreciated, thanks fellas

 

[Captain]

Probably best not to bother bringing up boyfriends. They don't have interest in you, they didn't give you their number.

 

[MisterMcGee]

I think youre being too outcome dependant. Youre asking them if they have boyfriends and so forth... why dont you just have fun with them and be sexual? You're making the courting too obvious, thus adding tension that takes away from the fun.

 

[WC2]

I think youre being too outcome dependant. Youre asking them if they have boyfriends and so forth... why dont you just have fun with them and be sexual? You're making the courting too obvious, thus adding tension that takes away from the fun.

Hit the nail on the head.

Women want to totally FORGET that you're trying to seduce them, and this is only achieved when you take them out of the context. Joke with them, make fun of them... do anything but ask them if they have a boyfriend. That takes them right back to ground zero, 0% sexual state.

 

[DohnShaft]

Never bring up a BF what do you care, it has nothing to do with you. Also, if a broad does have a BF doesn't mean she is happy or faithful for that matter. If she outright tells you she has a BF respond with something witty like, "How long have you had that problem."