Signs of Dropping IL?

[Maestro Monk]

Met this girl through a friend at school..she seemed totally into me from the get-go, initiated kino, and gave me her number without my asking. Two days later we see each other, and I invite her out for some drinks and dancing. Great time, but I didn't kiss her because my wing was there. She's a dedicated Christian..she talked about it nonstop for 15 minutes..mind you, we did take a religion class together..nevertheless, she seems to have good LTR potential.
I call her up few days later and invite her to hang with me doing "something adventerous" for next weekend. She agrees. We go, have a great time. Still no kiss...gave her a peck on the cheek. Could have made a move, but I wasn't feeling the vibe in her car when she dropped me off. I call again a few days later and invite her over for dinner when my family is away. She refuses, because she has an exam the next day. whatever, no biggie. called her a few days later to chat for couple minutes.
A week has now passed and I haven't seen or heard from her. I would've expected her to jump at the dinner opportunity, or at least take a rain check..but she didn't even thank me for the invite. Also, shouldn't she have called me if she still has a high IL?

 

[Desdinova]

You had a total of two dates to make a move, and you failed.

Two days later we see each other, and I invite her out for some drinks and dancing. Great time, but I didn't kiss her because my wing was there.

Why the hell was your wingman with you while you were out on a date? Wingmen are useful for picking up women, not when dating them.

If you don't make a move by the second date, she will most likely write you off and look for other men who are interested in being sexual with her. You NEED to show her where you stand with her by the second date. Now, you don't do this by telling her "I like you as more than a friend", you do it by initiating kino, and going in for the kiss.

Write this woman off and find another. Use this one as a learning experience.

 

[Maestro Monk]

My wing was with me because I dont drive, so he offerred to take me and his girl with him for a double date..only his girl was a no show, so he had to take one for the team.
Nexting this girl is no loss on my part, but like I said, she has the goody goody Christian character..I did use basic kino on her ams, hair, hands and shoulders. Just nothing sexual. Any specific examples of ways I could improve for next time? Thanks

 

[Desdinova]

My wing was with me because I dont drive, so he offerred to take me and his girl with him for a double date.

Double dates are fine when you've been dating a woman for a while. Having a double date for a first date isn't a good idea. It provides too many distractions. You want the woman to focus 100% on you and become comfortable around you. When you have two other people added into the mix, that takes away attention focussed on you.

I did use basic kino on her ams, hair, hands and shoulders. Just nothing sexual. Any specific examples of ways I could improve for next time?

What I mean by portraying yourself sexually is showing you're a sexual being. Kino is a good way to do this. Comfortably doing kino is much better. What you need to try doing is elevating the kino to a more sexual level. Kissing is more sexual than holding hands. Holding hands is more sexual than touching her shoulder.