"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Signs of Cheating

DjVelvet

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I was working out in the gym just now and received a sms from a very close colleague... He's getting married to a girl he has dated for 4 years, good for him. She's a nice girl, a keeper and ideal woman. Which leads me to think about the LTRs i used to have... and some of my friends have... Good quality girls and hors/players.... and some signs of cheating...

Guys, what are the signs of a woman cheating on you, can you really tell??

When your girlfriend show you all the red frags, of course it is a telltale sign that she's mostlikely cheating on you..

The main question is :-

Is there any possibility (low or none) that a woman will cheat on you even though she is showing you NO red frags, being lovey dovey, showing 101% interest?


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MR_PERFECT

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To catch a woman cheating, you have to hyperaware. A girl I dated casually mentioned how a guy she dated use to like her feet and like for her to paint her nails pink. 2 months later, she mentions that a guy she use to date wants to see her before he left the country (military), which was going to be in 2 weeks. Of course she said she won't see him. What happens? 2 weeks after telling me the guy wants to see her, her nails are painted pink. This may seem inconsequential to you, but little things like that are the only way you would catch a woman doing anything.
 

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ill give you the best piece of advice i think you are goign to get on this subject.

can you tell? who cares!

life is very simple. are you happy? forget all this internet level stuff and kino and everything else for a minute.

ARE YOU HAPPY?

if you aren't happy, then something is wrong. the woman you are with isn't adding to your life. she's not making you a better man. she's not unleashing the alpha in you that feels it can conquor the world.

and let me tell you something. if you ain't happy then theres a good chance she has, is, or will be cheating on you, regardless of the signs.

but if you are happy. if you are living life. if you believe in you 101%. no woman in her right mind would EVER cheat on that kind of man. EVER!

and trust me, when you are that kind of man, you won't waste your time on a woman who you 'think' might cheat on you.

it really doesn't matter whether you can detect cheating or not. the moment you suspect it is the moment you acknowledge to yourself that your relationship is NOT what you need, want or are looking for. and you should move on.
 

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joekerr31 said:
ill give you the best piece of advice i think you are goign to get on this subject.

can you tell? who cares!

life is very simple. are you happy? forget all this internet level stuff and kino and everything else for a minute.

ARE YOU HAPPY?

if you aren't happy, then something is wrong. the woman you are with isn't adding to your life. she's not making you a better man. she's not unleashing the alpha in you that feels it can conquor the world.

and let me tell you something. if you ain't happy then theres a good chance she has, is, or will be cheating on you, regardless of the signs.

but if you are happy. if you are living life. if you believe in you 101%. no woman in her right mind would EVER cheat on that kind of man. EVER!

and trust me, when you are that kind of man, you won't waste your time on a woman who you 'think' might cheat on you.

it really doesn't matter whether you can detect cheating or not. the moment you suspect it is the moment you acknowledge to yourself that your relationship is NOT what you need, want or are looking for. and you should move on.
very nice
 

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DjVelvet said:
Is there any possibility (low or none) that a woman will cheat on you even though she is showing you NO red frags, being lovey dovey, showing 101% interest?
Actually, if she becomes a little too nice and lovey - she may be compensating for feeling guilty about cheating or flirting on you.

So, I think you never know. It's something that is very easy to cover-up.

Warning signs:
1) She lies a lot (and if she lies to others, eventually she will lie to you too)
2) She's cheated before on other guys
3) She's an AW with a distant or absentee biological daddy
4) She goes out without you on Girl's Night Out (Hors Night Out)

But, a habitual deceiver is good at covering her tracks. So, the only way you might truly find out is through surveillance (key logging, snooping, etc) or if you somehow catch her red-handed or something. Or word gets back to you that she's been fuxxing around (if so, BELIEVE IT! :D).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DjVelvet

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Nice points made. The thing is, has anyone experience cases that your girl giving you no red frags yet in the end, cheat on you(showing absolutely no signs or red frags)? Just curious about tthis topic.
 

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Nice detective work Columbo I mean MR_PERFECT :). And wayword, I don't care how good a deceiver a person is. They will always slip up somewhere. It's been said when people do something wrong, subconsciously they want to get caught.
 

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I don't think you should care really just understand that if it does happen you dump her.

You want her to not mess around ..cheat on her or get her pregnant.Only way.
 
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