"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Signs of attraction?

TDH

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How can you tell when she's attracted and when its ok to take it to another level?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Very general question - needs more context, I'd say? Are you interested in knowing when a girl is attracted and you should talk to her, when a girl is attracted to you at a house party/club/bar/whatever and is dtf, or when to step things up a notch when you are out with a girl on a date?

Otherwise, general signs are her looking at you, angling her head in a flirty way, messing with her hair while next to you, fidgeting a lot, in ways that are done to grab your attention. Body language is where you find your truth in the situation - unless she's attracted enough to just come out and talk to you herself.
 

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Well I asked because there were lots of females who liked me or were attracted and I couldn't tell I just asked to be more aware and I also wanted to know are there any tell-tell signs from women to know when its ok to move to a sexual level
 
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