"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Signs of a Shady Character

bob2007

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1. Tea colored sunglasses indoors

I was in cuba and a hotel waiter told us not to hangout with the man that had chatted us up in the restaurant.

He said that guy is up to no good.
He was wearing tea colored sunglasses / glasses indoors.
He waited for me to go to the bathroom before chatting up my gf.
I guess that way it would bring down my heightened senses.
Older guy 55+ single and alone in Cuba.
I asked him what he did and he said communications system... an American. ( At the time the US did not allow everyone into Cuba).

2. Men that pat you on the back but barely know you

When they are talking to you or they want something.
I've seen experienced this before.
Coincidentally, this guy also wore tea colored sunglasses / glasses.
Broke up with his wife of 30 years.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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