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Signs a FB wants something more?

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Inspired by a couple of FB threads today.

I was hoping to get some opinions on signs that a FB wants something more.

This is something I have managed terribly in the past. I haven't had one FB relationship that didn't end with her crying or breaking stuff. I had a business suit torched one time. Generally, because they got into it as a FB and developed more feelings, even though I was straight up about what was going on in the initial stages. This always happens at about the 2 month mark in the 4 occasions that it has happened to me.

So, have at it. What should I look for?
 

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Originally posted by Easy Tiger

This is something I have managed terribly in the past. I haven't had one FB relationship that didn't end with her crying or breaking stuff.
Neither have I, forget it its a myth.

From my personal experience the actual real life no strings attached FB is bollocks, maybe if your ugly/socially inept or retarded shes ALWAYS going to want more.

Chicks will piss and moan and swear black and blue that theyre not like that and they can imitate male behaviour by seperating sex and "love" but unless the male in question is a fvckup its rubbish.
 

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Re: Re: Signs a FB wants something more?

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Neither have I, forget it its a myth.

From my personal experience the actual real life no strings attached FB is bollocks, maybe if your ugly/socially inept or retarded shes ALWAYS going to want more.

Chicks will piss and moan and swear black and blue that theyre not like that and they can imitate male behaviour by seperating sex and "love" but unless the male in question is a fvckup its rubbish.
Disagree completely.

Ive had 5 FBs this year, and only one got attached to me (because I blew her off after 2 weeks) the other 4 just wanted sex and everything worked out fine.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Signs a FB wants something more?

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Disagree completely.

Ive had 5 FBs this year, and only one got attached to me (because I blew her off after 2 weeks) the other 4 just wanted sex and everything worked out fine.
What do you disagree with ? you havent even said anything that goes against what I said, apart from having 5 FB's in the space of under a year I dont see your point.

You can bang 4 chicks and not have a single 1 fall for you? (the 2 week "FB" doesnt count) guess what I think you just proved my point, if not 1 wants more with you I'm guessing your not cutting it in some other department and lacking something else too them.

Trust me, if your perceived as the real deal to these b!tches and a complete man package their going to want more.

And besides, less than a year is hardly an indicator that they wont turn even if you are a complete package (mentally, socially, sexually etc etc) to these chicks.
 

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What do you disagree with ? you havent even said anything that goes against what I said, apart from having 5 FB's in the space of under a year I dont see your point.

You can bang 4 chicks and not have a single 1 fall for you? (the 2 week "FB" doesnt count) guess what I think you just proved my point, if not 1 wants more with you I'm guessing your not cutting it in some other department and lacking something else too them.

Trust me, if your perceived as the real deal to these b!tches and a complete man package their going to want more.
Doesn't necessarily mean he's lacking. It could be that she has other options or that their personalities clash so much so that neither of them could envision anything more concrete happening between them.
 

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i had a girlfriend who became my FB.

The sad part was that when I was ready for another relationship, this FB of mine started confronting this new girl.

My FB said to the girl that we were still on.

I've never heard from the new girl ever since. She wont reply to my email and txt messages.

Lesson learned: "It's not good to be an FB with an ex. But you still could indulge yourself once in a while. But when she is sending signals that she wants more -- Get out of it immediately."
 

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
Doesn't necessarily mean he's lacking. It could be that she has other options or that their personalities clash so much so that neither of them could envision anything more concrete happening between them.
Yeah in other words lacking something to her. :rolleyes:
 
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