"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Signals - what to look for?

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Hi,

I have read a few posts on this forum where people are going on about how they've seen the signals or the signals were all there.

What exactly are the signals to look out for, and how do you spot them?

Also, does anyone know of a good source of heaps of sample dialogues (I've seen a couple on the forum and would like to see them all in the one area) and videos of men being successful with a woman? The conversation/interacting/meeting part, that is.

Thanks
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Samples are really just that, samples. Don't rely on lines, rely on conversation skills... and that can only be acquired through practice.

As for signals, there are MANY posts about them -- run a search.

-Bill
 
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Originally posted by fyrefly
http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/02_How_to_Get_Started/bodylanguage.shtml

zing.

- fyrefly
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Well one of the signs is a girl playing with her hair and necklace during your dinner date. That shows she likes you.

Well that went out the damn window with me. This girl was doing ALL those things, went back to my place, had a make out session.
Emailed me the next day, said she wants to come over again.

Haven't heard from her in over a week! No return calls, no return emails, nothing!

Just when I thought I had it figured out, this happens. I will never understand women.
 
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Haven't heard from her in over a week! No return calls, no return emails, nothing!


Hey guess what... THe world doesnt revovle around you ( as we all wish it is ) Wait awhile to see if she does call.. She could be busy with work or family or something you should like a girl that is busy Then some flake that sits around and rerranges the names in her cell phone in her spare time which is alot....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Welcome to the forum. Try reading the DJ Bible (http://www.jbspencer.com/djb) then all of the threads in the archive. They contain useful information that will answer this and many other questions. If you read through all of that and still don't know how a girl acts when she likes you then PM me and I'll unlock this thread, thanks.
 
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