"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Signaling" and "Building" status

jhonny9546

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Unfortunately, all that stuff you have (physique, good paying job, etc.) is irrelevant when it comes to arousal. The stuff you have attracts women, but unless your arousing to them, you'll continue to beat your head against a wall. What you need to do is start developing an organic dominance in your conversations w/ females. You need to learn how to use your body language to communicate to women non-verbally that you're high value and have your pick of the litter w/ females.
The user says that a man shouldn't follow the REAL elements that make up a person's SMV, but rather adopt behavior that signals he already has those elements. It sounds good.

This is the case where many women are in relationships with men who have the REAL elements, but desire other men, those who lack the elements, or who are better at signaling behavior.

But let's get to the point. YOU are a man, and you shouldn't care about women. Or rather, the least.
In this case, if you really want to spend your life researching how to properly signal that you have high status, you will fail to obtain REAL resources.
In the sense that a man's focus shouldn't be on being able to signal (minimally speaking) that he has resources. A man SHOULD have resources.

With that out of the way, let's get to the one thing I believe a man SHOULD have about this UNREAL behavior: knowing how to communicate with women.
It's not necessarily about "conveying high status" to women. Men must know how to communicate with them. But that shouldn't be the mission. We're on a seduction forum, and yet, men should strive to be good finding resources

Unfortunately, all that stuff you have (physique, good paying job, etc.) is irrelevant when it comes to arousal.
When it comes to arousal. Of course!
But... if you have a good shape body, you follow a diet, you're disciplined, it's inner game. You don't care whether you approach women or not. You care how you treat yourself, more than anything else.

Given this, we must talk about
organic dominance in your conversations w/ females
, what it means for you, and how you would explain to a ten y.o. boy or your male son.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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