"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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theres this girl in my class i sorta like and she just broke up with her boyfriend. she did not tell me directly but i overheard her. i've had sporadic contact with her, kinda talking every now and then nothing huge. well 2 days ago she tapped my desk trying to get my attention and i finally look up and shes like hey u like clothes with girls in bikinis right? im like yeah (shes looking at my shirt) she says (name of store where she works) has them in right now and i should go check them out. im like thanks.

what do u guys think? subtle sign of interest ( wanting me to stop by where she works out of class) or just a friendly suggestion? i asked one girls opinion on this and she said unless this girl has stock in the company then shes "obviously" trying to say something to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jlr12584
theres this girl in my class i sorta like and she just broke up with her boyfriend. she did not tell me directly but i overheard her. i've had sporadic contact with her, kinda talking every now and then nothing huge. well 2 days ago she tapped my desk trying to get my attention and i finally look up and shes like hey u like clothes with girls in bikinis right? im like yeah (shes looking at my shirt) she says (name of store where she works) has them in right now and i should go check them out. im like thanks.

what do u guys think? subtle sign of interest ( wanting me to stop by where she works out of class) or just a friendly suggestion? i asked one girls opinion on this and she said unless this girl has stock in the company then shes "obviously" trying to say something to me.
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maybe she works on commission..

if she says "hey u like clothes with girls in bikinis right?" i'm thinking u have alot of clothes with girls in bikinis on them.. that doesn't sound real appealing..
go down and check them out.. don't buy anything, next time ur going clothes shopping, stop in there again, and maybe u'll see something u like... don't make it out like ur buying something to please her.
 
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well actually its the only shirt i have with a girl in a bikini on it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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