"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sigh, my *****-ass brother went on my sn and asked this chick out. what can i say? she said yes. sigh. shes like a HB5, but not my type. too much fobby. i guess to show my bro up, im gonna go out with her. but make it cheap, we playin' tennis on monday. anyone got any tips or suggestions for this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1st) Change you password.
2) Remove ugs from your account.

Go to a park.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
1st) Change you password.
2) Remove ugs from your account.

Go to a park.
for 1 and 2 i was like gone and he just went on and did it when i wasn't in the room.

park?
 

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Originally posted by Inquire
for 1 and 2 i was like gone and he just went on and did it when i wasn't in the room.

park?
Windows key + L locks your computer. Set a pass for that

Take her to a coffee shop because it won't be terrible awkward and you can leave whenever you find it best.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Windows key + L locks your computer. Set a pass for that

Take her to a coffee shop because it won't be terrible awkward and you can leave whenever you find it best.
im dead broke and give me the basiks of the lockin' thing please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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