*SIGH* I think my girl has turned into a game playing b!tch..

[.Paradox.]

Ask her if she wants to hang out Monday, but she has friends from another state visiting her for a couple days so she can't. Whatever. I just say I'll see her when they leave and to have fun.

Got a text from her yesterday asking "what r u doing?" I text back saying I'm thinking about how to dispose of a dead hooker, which would usually make her laugh, but I get no response. Worst part is we've had problems in the past where we don't receive each others texts so I dunno if she was being a total b!tch for no reason and not responding or just never got it. Texted her again that night saying "I just got outta the gym, wanna chill tonight?" 20 minutes later she tells me she's at dinner with a girlfriend of hers and doesn't know when she'll be home.

Today..

Her: Hey, I was just about to send you a chat msg on Facebook when you signed off. What's shakin', schoolboy?
Me: Heading into class. You?
Her: I'm at work. Sorry we never connected last night... Did you write back?
Me: Exciting. And no, I didn't.
Her: I didn't end up walking home till 11:30. (She seriously sent this instead of just asking to hang out? The f*ck?)
Me: Ok?

No response.


The lack of respect here is pissing me off. We've been seeing each other for 6 months and she's now blowing me off (twice this week) without reciprocating another day/time to hang out. Then when she texts me, it's not "hey, sorry I was busy, wanna hang out tonight?" Or "I want to see you," it's stupid sh!t like "what r u doing," which goes no-where.

I deleted her number and texts after this.

 

[women haze]

Ignore it you did the right thing. Completely ignore everything she sends you in the future, she is playing games/into someone else. I had the same problems with a chick i went on a date with. She did the same $hit..

i found out later that she had a dude still around that was hitting her up...

you did the right thing.

Now here are your mistakes


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Got a text from her yesterday asking "what r u doing?" I text back saying I'm thinking about how to dispose of a dead hooker(why the hell would you say something creepy like this? not suave at all depending on what kind of day she is having), which would usually make her laugh, but I get no response. Worst part is we've had problems in the past where we don't receive each others texts so I dunno if she was being a total b!tch for no reason and not responding or just never got it. Texted her again that night saying "I just got outta the gym, wanna chill tonight?"(you just say "Just got out of the gym, lets do XYZ be a leader) 20 minutes later she tells me she's at dinner with a girlfriend of hers and doesn't know when she'll be home.

Today..

Her: Hey, I was just about to send you a chat msg on Facebook when you signed off. What's shakin', schoolboy?
Me: Heading into class.(then you say nothng more cut it off here) You?
Her: I'm at work. Sorry we never connected last night... Did you write back?
Me: Exciting. And no, I didn't.
Her: I didn't end up walking home till 11:30. (She seriously sent this instead of just asking to hang out? The f*ck?)
Me: Ok? (After what she said above you should not have said anything else)

 

[gaspipe]

Shes losing interest in you dude but is just keeping you on the hook with those non sensical texts in order to keep her options open.

She may already have her eye on another dude or she just got bored with the relationship.

Like the above poster said, dont bother to respond if she keeps on sending you text messages.

Ive experienced the same shyt with women and have learned to detect their BS early on. If a chick doesnt agree to a date within a couple of exchanges be it by text or telephone then she has low IL and its best to just delete her number and move on.

 

[Diaforetikos]

I've been there bro bro.

Simple answer, break it off and find other girls. She's playing games. She needs to realize this ain't Monopoly.

She is bored and wants something else. Your not boring, she's just immature and isn't content with a stable lifestyle. Not your fault.

Break it off and find someone who fits with your lifestyle. And to be honest, if your coming on here this pissed off to the point where your calling her a b***h, you should have already taken care of this.

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