sigh* girl with a boyfriend. not interested in getting with her but damn it.

[guayaballer]

just last fri this girl in my english class who i never spoke to before saw my braclet which said where i was from. (ecuador) she is also ecuadorian and she started talking to me and one thing led to another and the past 3 days we started flirting and flirting. but she has a fuccking boyfriend. whenever she would talk about him i would just pretend to snore or listen a little bit and change the topic. i tickled her and she told me her boyfriend doesnt even know she tickilish. and we keep talking and talking. her boyfriend is a jerk to her but yeah. and I dont want to become the guy that givers her what she needs while her boyfriend is reaping the benefits. she keeps approaching me or starting convos with me in class but i i dont want to get used like a tampon. OR if possible try to influence her her boyfriend isnt what she needs and she needs to get her to come my way. but id rather try not to talk to her as much and keep her in back of the line till she breaks up with him but i want to do it in a way where she wont think im doin it on purpose or im mad at her

why do i always attract girls with boyfriends but never single girls

 

[SenorSuave]

Well you sound like you do want to hook with her. But otherwise, women with boyfriends shouldn't be seen so much as a problem, but as an opportunity. Use a BF destroyer. The best bf destroyer i think would be to simply ignore the fact that she even has one. Treat her like you would a single woman, that is if your looking to catch her. Also, I don't know you so I have no true idea, but women often use the BF line as an escape, so it could be that they are just using this. I'd also like to add the fact that I know a majority of women who aren't in a relationship out there, so, maybe it's just the fact that you need to get out and pursue women away from school and such.

EDIT: And I'd like to add that often when you do catch a woman with a bf, she will often go back for one reason or another. This has even happened to Mystery (read The Game)

 

[wabu07]

well try to stay away from her. push pull one day act interested and the other day flirt with her it might drive her crazy enough to dump her bf.

 

[guayaballer]

i do want to hook up wit her but sophmore year i loved the challenge of girls with bfs i got into 6 fights 5 of which i won and the 6th his friends had to help out and the girl always hates me even though her boyfriend puts there hands on me 1st. so im tryin to not get into any more fights. and i have seen her boyfriend they are always in the hallway. i know girls with bfs are not worth it but you cant help it sometimes know what i mean? especially if she keeps coming up to me and talking and touching me. is their any way i keep keep her interest level the same but at the same time keep contact to a minimal. and your right there are more girls out there but the ones with bfs gravitate toward me it seems i give them what their man isnt giving them. so could any of you guys help out.