Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Side Ni66a In the making, what's a playa suppose to do?

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So basically met this girl at my sisters birthday rooftop party . Kicked it off smoov, like I'm talking about she was giving more attention to me than to her boi, we were laughing and having great conversation. Anyway the night ended , My sister gets a text from her saying "low key your bro kinda cute" at that moment I Knew she wanted the D, but at the same time, she has a dude whom she been with for 3 + years ?

Dude is older and has money, nicely dressed, pretty well rounded dude I guess (anyway)

Fast forward

Ended up meeting her again couple days later cause she was meeting with my sister to go a club, mind you, she was with her mans.LOL. She leaves him to ride with me and my sister in an uber. Her hands on my knees the whole way there. Get there. Ditches him and comes with me and my sister to another club next door. We finally got sometime alone. And you know. We start making out and ****. But had to keep it low key. Ended the night acting like nothing happen.

Now we texting about to link up next week at night. I think I'm about to smash. Not really trying to cuff her either

I need some pro tips.

1. Why she doing this to her mans?

2. Should I even bring up her mans?

3. If we smash, what to expect to come next?

4. Generally anything that will help a young dood.

Bless~
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1. Because you turn her on more than her man can.
2. NO.
3. She will likely get issues with her boyfriend. Then a little bit of drama could happen. She might want you to be her boyfriend next if you do her too good. She might hit you up again if her boyfriend still doesn't know and you two could have like a friends with benefits type of deal.
4. Do what you gotta do bruh.
 

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1. Because you turn her on more than her man can.
2. NO.
3. She will likely get issues with her boyfriend. Then a little bit of drama could happen. She might want you to be her boyfriend next if you do her too good. She might hit you up again if her boyfriend still doesn't know and you two could have like a friends with benefits type of deal.
4. Do what you gotta do bruh.
Thank you wise one~ blessed
 

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She's sizing you up as her replacement man.

If you want to force the issue, just tell her you don't **** with chicks that have boyfriends. She'll have to dump one of you.
 

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She's sizing you up as her replacement man.

If you want to force the issue, just tell her you don't **** with chicks that have boyfriends. She'll have to dump one of you.
Hahaha she might get hurt cause

Honestly I'm not trying to do all that.

My best wishes is to smash and remain side
Ni66a.

Today was July 4th, I was on a roof top enjoying a magical moment watching the fireworks, which I posted on my snap story and she saw it. I looked at her snaps and she's with her man watching fireworks on TV at home ( hahahahahah) boring/lame.

This dude ****ing up hard lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So basically met this girl at my sisters birthday rooftop party . Kicked it off smoov, like I'm talking about she was giving more attention to me than to her boi, we were laughing and having great conversation. Anyway the night ended , My sister gets a text from her saying "low key your bro kinda cute" at that moment I Knew she wanted the D, but at the same time, she has a dude whom she been with for 3 + years ?

Dude is older and has money, nicely dressed, pretty well rounded dude I guess (anyway)

Fast forward

Ended up meeting her again couple days later cause she was meeting with my sister to go a club, mind you, she was with her mans.LOL. She leaves him to ride with me and my sister in an uber. Her hands on my knees the whole way there. Get there. Ditches him and comes with me and my sister to another club next door. We finally got sometime alone. And you know. We start making out and ****. But had to keep it low key. Ended the night acting like nothing happen.

Now we texting about to link up next week at night. I think I'm about to smash. Not really trying to cuff her either

I need some pro tips.

1. Why she doing this to her mans?

2. Should I even bring up her mans?

3. If we smash, what to expect to come next?

4. Generally anything that will help a young dood.

Bless~
WTF is this shyt? Are you black? If so, PLEASE edit this illiterate a.ss post because you make all of us black men on this forum look/sound fvcking stupid.

And if this story is true, that some chick passed up an older, well-dressed, and well-off man to be with a fvcking IDIOT like you, then it just goes to prove my theory even more correct.....and it's that bytches of this market are fvcking retarded!
 

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WTF is this shyt? Are you black? If so, PLEASE edit this illiterate a.ss post because you make all of us black men on this forum look/sound fvcking stupid.

And if this story is true, that some chick passed up an older, well-dressed, and well-off man to be with a fvcking IDIOT like you, then it just goes to prove my theory even more correct that bytches of this market are fvcking retarded!
Bro chill, just trying to be a Don Juan.

Don't matter if I'm black or not. Just trying to pick up some game
 

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WTF is this shyt? Are you black? If so, PLEASE edit this illiterate a.ss post because you make all of us black men on this forum look/sound fvcking stupid.

And if this story is true, that some chick passed up an older, well-dressed, and well-off man to be with a fvcking IDIOT like you, then it just goes to prove my theory even more correct.....and it's that bytches of this market are fvcking retarded!
Side dudes are a "luxury" females are using now days.
 

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WTF is this shyt? Are you black? If so, PLEASE edit this illiterate a.ss post because you make all of us black men on this forum look/sound fvcking stupid.
He's doesn't represent the black people on this forum.

He's not black anyway. Black people don't talk like this. Its silly and looks like the way someone imagines black people speak. It takes more effort to type like that than to actually just say what you mean. Just some troll creating a new account to try out a new internet forum fantasy personality.

Im mean, c'mon on, reeaally? Lejames? Subtlety dude. Subtlety.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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@logicallefty

Or any moderator, close this thread. If I can't say whóre. He can't say niģģa. It's in the title.
Really? Lol "Lejames" set you off? And why everyone so offended? Acting like a little girl with some hurt feelings.

So what? I really do talk like that? Wow really??

how can you call yourself a Don Juan when all you do is hate? Lol

Anyways a true Don Juan don't let the haters phase his day, I guess you ain't poping unless you have haters.
 

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I have to agree. This thread is tanking quickly like a bad stock on a bearish day. Thread closed.
 
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