"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sick of women just fliriting with me.....

John_Smith

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I don't need any advice, I'm just getting a little sick of some things

I'm really sick of women just flirting with me. Relationships here are almost impossible to find.

I'm pretty good looking, a lot of women I meet give a lot of green lights, so its not too big a deal if one checks me out. However, almost all (not all) of the good ones are taken and it just getting on my nerves lately.

Whenever I think, maybe she would be good to spend a relationship with, she always ends up having a bf and was just flirting with me.

Eh
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chevelle

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I have the same problem. i am really good looking probably like a 9, but i always get stereotyped as a player and it's hard to win girls over. They constantly think you are going to cheat on them and it alters their personality and turns them into a psycho. You can't be ****y either, because then every guy wants to fight you. Sometimes, i wish i was just average looking.
 

John_Smith

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hehe,

I'm getting sick of "playerism" and thought of just settling down. But its impossible LOL....seriously, almost all the good ones are all taken. They'll flirt wiht you and let you do stuff with them, but if you ask them to go anywhere, they have a bf.......
 

Cruise

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Count your blessings...

quit being a weenie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DasaniWater

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to be honest im really sick of my gf using me, only inviting me to her house when she wants to fck....
 

MindOverMatter

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Like most guys, you take flirting too seriously and assume right off the bat that the girl wants you and then end up disappointed when u figure out she has a guy. you should take it lightly and not pay much attention to it.

Personally, I'm still a giant flirt even if I'm in a relationship (like I am now). To me, it's natural as breathing. I will flirt with girls I have no intention fo ever hooking up with, like coworkers, female friends, girls related to my friends, etc. It's just harmless flirting, and it's a way of making your conversations more fun while making the other person will good about themselves (and they return the flirt and make you feel good about yourself).

The point of it all? building people skills, and expanding your social circle. i.e. while that girl who flirts with you may have a bf, her hot best friend may be out of a relationship and looking for some rebound d!ck. don't limit your options just to the girl you're flirting with, look at the bigger picture. you also learn how to create back-ups, so if you're seeing someone and it doesn't work out, you have another girl you can immediatly go to and not skip a beat.
 

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Thanks for sharing... I guess...
 

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John_Smith said:
I'm really sick of women just flirting with me.
fvck you
chevelle said:
I have the same problem. i am really good looking probably like a 9, but i always get stereotyped as a player and it's hard to win girls over.
And fvck you too
DasaniWater said:
to be honest im really sick of my gf using me, only inviting me to her house when she wants to fck....
STFU
 

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This thread has to be a joke. And everyone agreeing is being sarcastic, right?

Oh please don't tell me this is serious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol HAHAHAHAHAHAH
oh boo hoo hoo I'm too sexy feel sorry for me please
BBX is right, shut the **** up
 

James Bondage

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Haha yup.

If you have a problem with being 'too good looking' or whatever, feel free to come over to my town where I will be pleased to beat your face into a less appealling shape.
 

thederekeffect1

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penguin said:
This thread has to be a joke. And everyone agreeing is being sarcastic, right?

Oh please don't tell me this is serious.
FVCK YOU!

Marlimus said:
lol HAHAHAHAHAHAH
oh boo hoo hoo I'm too sexy feel sorry for me please
BBX is right, shut the **** up
ROTFLMAO LOL JK ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOP BRB WB STFU!

BBX said:
fvck you

And fvck you too

STFU
AND FVCK YOU TOO!

With that aside, let's act like grown ups. Thank you.
 
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