"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sick of the board jockeys

Casino

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I really don't concern myself with board jockeys.

I think it should be a pre-requisite that you post some pics of yourself and with the conquests you've made if you are going to be giving tons of advice.

I give advice and think I'm fairly gifted at this art but admit i've still got a long way to go.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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smoke city

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No. This is not interesting. This whole thread is pointless unless you can give better advice--stuff that people here can use. At the moment, tristan, you're just saying "get up off your ass and start talking to girls" when many guys are here specifically because they have trouble doing that (there could be lots of reasons). that's like telling a guy with a broken leg to "just get up and walk".

You can indict the "keyboard jockeys" all you want, but the fact is that they provide USEFUL ADVICE. I have had a great deal of success with tips i read on this board, and I don't give a fvck who's giving the advice. I don't care how good you think you are with women (I wonder if you really are), I just don't think you're giving advice that most guys here will find useful--only derogatory.

The best of us will inspire greatness in the rest. Right now you're just being a prick.
 
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