"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sick Of Girls!!

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Okay well get ready for a rant. I've made a couple posts on here and I keep having the same problems.

1.) Girls show me high interests
2.) We text and phone good
3.) She's into my entire game and everything
4.) We phone sex, I kino her in person, I mean everything, etc. etc.

But the ***** will NOT ****ing chill with me, or do nothing, will not go anywhere with me, ****. I'm so god damn sick and tired of this bull****!!!

I'm just giving up, I'm tired. I put in too much god damn energy into this **** and I'm just done with it.

I keep telling myself to just stay in there and have patience with these girls, I"m done. ****ing done.

Sometimes I feel like because I'm not some criminal, gangsta, loser, that despite the fact that I'm not a nice guy by any long shot, I still feel like I get placed in the "make him wait" pile or some bull**** like that. I'm just ****ing done with this ****.

I take time out of my busy ass day to talk to these *****es and they can't spend a ****in saturday night with a guy?? **** em. I give the **** up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IKO69

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good. you sound like you are in a need of a break. concentrate on other things to get your mind off this **** for a while. do something new, chicks will come around when the time is right. they aren't the end all be all.
 

xdreamz

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whoa,

when did you ask her out for the saturday...was it on saturday???? if it was then girls aren't that available where they have absolutely nothing to do on a saturday you have to ask her out in advance like on a wednesday.

i'm not saying its not possible but i've seen dudes that get mad girls that get turned down on saturday on a saturday. hell even I got turned down today(saturday)... i wasn't even expecting her to accept, i just told her i was going to go to a party far away she said that it was too far away but at least she told me that we would hang out later.

but maybe its something else... maybe you're not that well dressed. you can't be dressing like you're homeless if you want to be seen publicly with her.
 

women haze

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I feel you man...girls are WACK!!!
 

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Try asking her out on a Tuesday or Wednesday.

On a real, stop making b**ches your Numero Uno priority. You're doing it here. Don't do it again. Try your favorite hobby and girls may come to you, but don't give her too much attention. Give a little, then some more, then take it away. The girl should be chasing you.

BTW on Saturdays, girls usually have a lot of date offers on the table from AFC's and other people. These include a walk in the park, a day at Six Flags, Dinner-and-a-movie, a 300 dinner at Pappadeaux, a night of dancing, movie night at home, and similar sh*t. They also remember the looks and confidence of those guys who made those offers. The best looking offer wins.

Now look at the very top sentence in size 5 bold. Start doing it when your wits are together. No, your wits are not at their best right now. Work on that. Then go after girls who pique your interest. Qualify them b**ches!

Case closed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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