"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sick of girls, how to stop thinking about girls full stop.

dingo23

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They complain, they *****, don't understand them.

I'm getting really sick of girls, I'm always telling my mind to stop thinking about girls, but for some reason it is in the back of my mind, I'm getting really annoyed. Any of you DJs know the best way to completely stop thinking about them...besides chopping off your whack?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BMW

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think about guys. Hope that helps.


nah seriously, get yourself involved in sport(s) and when you see someone doing better than u at that sport(s), push yourself to beat that person and then the next and next and so on until your body can't handle it anymore.
 

MackJr

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Two things:

1) change the type of girl you go after. The girliest girls are also the ones with the most emotinal problems. Go after smarter women accepting that they won't be as feminine, but also won't have the same level of problems.

2) Think about different girls and different things. Don't think about the ones that bug you, think more about your ideal women, even if they're characters on tv or a book, and put your energies into hobbies as well.
 
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