"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SICK of being lazy!

neonlimited

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okay, im not the most confident person in the world.. and dont meet alot of girls. i read all the dj bible and eveyrhting, trying to do the Bootcamp, but i am just lazy or what?? i get out there and when i get a chance to say hi to a girl or talk to her, i DONT, and im sick of that!! i say that now here, but when im out there saying im going to do it, i dont do it!! any tips? PLS thx
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MixMaxster

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I'm telling ya from experience man that you just gotta get it done. I found that if I invested my energy 100% into something isntead of investing what I needed to, that it felt easier to do and I got it done quicker. It's like studying for me in the past, I'd sit in my room for 4 hours trying to study and find myself cleaning it, watching tv, organizing my room or whatever else. AND in the end, if I did study for 4 hours, it was more like 30mins - 1 hour... so think about this man, if you just go out there and give'r, then you will go at it full force instead of wasting time and energy. Because now, instead of wasting 4 hours, I get that 1 hour of solid studying in without spanning it out to 4 hours. When I just say do it, and just actually tune my head out and do it... things get done and when i catch myself trying to weasel out, I give myself hell for trying and make myself continue working on what i was doing.

That's just something I've noticed anyways, just force yourself to do it. I know how easy it is to tell yourself to do it another time, or not worry about it right now or smoe other thing your mind will think of. But the truth is, it's just REALLY LAZY, so you need motivation, passion and PURPOSE for what you're doing. Figure that out, give it 100% and that will help you on your road to success.

JUST DO IT, JUST GET IT DONE and man JUST GET STARTED ON THAT ALREADY!
 

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Lazyness is underrated...

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>_>

*runs*
 
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