Sick of being anti social

[Dhoulmagus]

Im anti social, but im approachable. Pretty much I know a lot of people, but try to hide when they see me in public. Like im comfortable around some people, but idk how to act around others. Needless to say, I like hanging out with people inferior to me which is not good. Any of yall ever have to deal with this.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Sounds like you have an introverted superiority complex. It's familiar to me because I used to think this way too. When you stop trying to take life so seriously and genuinely enjoy interacting with other people, this problem will go away.

 

[Poon King]

Relax dude.

People who you have no desire to be social with or don't feel like talking to, OR don't know how to act around are people who don't matter. Its your own brain telling you not to waste your time.

You don't need to "act a certain way" around people to begin with. The only person's approval you need is your own.

 

[jurry]

Relax dude.

People who you have no desire to be social with or don't feel like talking to, OR don't know how to act around are people who don't matter. Its your own brain telling you not to waste your time.

You don't need to "act a certain way" around people to begin with. The only person's approval you need is your own.

Well said.

 

[guru1000]

Make an effort to do at least one act/thing you are not comfortable with every day. In one year, you wouldn't recognize who you are today.

 

[El Payaso]

Needless to say, I like hanging out with people inferior to me which is not good.

What do you mean "inferior to you"? Just curious.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Its just that youre fuked up so you atract and get attracted to other fuked up people. No biggie, normals are boring anyway. And dont envy people with higher status than you, try to talk to them and youll see theyre much like you.

 

[MattR1984]

I dislike 90% of the people I meet in social gatherings. A lot of girls I date I can tolerate there roommate's or roommate's boyfriends but I never become "Bros" with them. No one likes a drunk but a drunk, and the same goes for people who get high all the time and you show up sober. My solution for these type of situations was taking Adderall. It made me super social regardless. However, the next day or week later I didn't like these people again.