"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sick for two months, but im not sick...

KillingTime

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Ive been sick for 2 months, having all kinds of intestinal symptoms.
No pain just a constant feeling of fullness, bloating, and nausea/upset stomach.
I'm a bodybuilder so i was used to eating 6 meals a day but that has been drastically reduced and ive lost 20 lbs. Some days I can force down almost 5 meals, although small ones, other days like today ive barely eaten anything.

The bad news is ive had a blood test, an abdominal ultrasound and now even an endoscopy test and they can't find anything wrong.
Gallstones, appendicitis, liver damage, ulcers, H. Pylori, cancer.... nothing.
I did have some very mild irritation in my stomach and esophagus but it shouldn't be causing such extreme symptoms, if anything it could be a symptom in and of itself of whatever else may be wrong.

Where do I go from here? They tell me, well you're ok nothing is wrong.... yea great, too bad I feel sick 24/7 and my clothes are all falling off b/c I can't maintain any weight..
The only thing I can think of is that I might have some weird case of depression/anxiety that's giving me all these physical symptoms, that or my thyroid but Im really running out of options here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten

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could it be severe acid reflux? my mom had that and her dr had to prescribe her some stuff that was stronger than over the counter stuff. it seems to have helped for about three years or so now.
 

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first of all, remember, your health is much more precious than your physique. I had to quit bodybuilding before because of health problems, and now, although I am still working out, i am much healthier thanks to changed diet, right food, etc.


endoscopy? ouch, i feel your pain.

honestly, since this is your health and your life, i suggest you try and eat very healthy if you are not doing that already. By that I mean lots of vegetables and fiber, less red mead, more fish and so on. When i had my problems, i started eating extra healthy, and i felt much better.

Bodybuilding is great, i still love it, but its not healthy the way some guys eat too much protein, ****ty carbs, too much canned or artificial crap and so on.

Also, have you started anything weird in the past couple of months? New protein stuff, milk, etc? Maybe its something thats causing it.
 

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could it be severe acid reflux? my mom had that and her dr had to prescribe her some stuff that was stronger than over the counter stuff. it seems to have helped for about three years or so now.

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How long have you been bodybuilding? If you don't take periodic 2-3 week breaks from lifting and bulk diets every 4 months or so, you can overstress your body. It sounds like your system is going on strike from being worked too hard :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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