Sick before fixing up the date?

[beginnerDJ]

Well,

So I meet a friend's date when he brings her along to join us in a group gathering for a while, I just talk to her and tell her where we hang out usually.

Just by chance, we meet online and exchange numbers. I ask her if she's game for a drink, she asks whether its with me or with the group, I say just me, she's ok with it, and we'll discuss it later in the evening.

Turns out she gets sick that evening and we don't get to talking about it (the date was meant to be tonight), and she's still sick this morning(seeing a doc) when I ask her if she's getting any better.

So, what do I do to follow up in this situation, but keep in control?

 

[beginnerDJ]

really would appreciate your comments guys

 

[Julian]

If i were you id tell her to give me a call back as soon as she was better. Id hope her well and go along with my business.

 

[Vanilla]

Sounds like an excuse. I overused sickness for my job haha. Anyways that's just my opinion when I first read it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Give her a call in a week just to see how she is doing. Don't make another date unless she asks.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

No DON'T call her again, you'll come off as needy!! You should have told her to call you when she's feeling better so you 2 can go get that drink. However, now the ball is still in her court. She has your # and she knows how to get a hold of you. If she calls then your good, if she doesn't then you know she was lying.



PIMP

 

[Porky]

I've used sickness to get out of dates.

 

[LowPlainsDrifter]

I had the inverse problem - wasn't feeling well and had to reschedule. Had to convince her I was still interesed.

 

[JohnJones]

I'd have to be pretty sick to cancel a date that I really wanted to go on