“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shyness of this HB.. break it? or Wait?

PEACEDJ

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Hey recently I've been told that the who i liked and dj'd.. likes me. I've heard this from numerous number of her friends... the only catch is that she's become very shy after that and I want to know this girl better before I choose her. The thing is, I keep thinking that I need to fulfill something for her to comfortable around me and I can tell she likes me because of the body language shown... How can I break this because I go over to talk to her in the most positive attitude and she seems to keep getting shy and shy.. should I just wait or leave?- Thanks "PDJ"
 

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Be the strong dominant man who takes her hands and put them down your pants.
 

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The only suggestion I would have is
next time you talk to her ask her out.
When you hopefully go out, be sure to
do something physical (hold hands, kiss)
at some point and I bet she'll be less
nervous after that.
 

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Shy girls just take a little longer to get comfortable with you. Be patient... There is no way to break her of shyness.
 

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Originally posted by Reto
Shy girls just take a little longer to get comfortable with you. Be patient... There is no way to break her of shyness.
Yes.Just be sexual.SHe will follow the beat if you make it look like its a normal thing to do.
 

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The last time I dated a shy girl, a frozen margarita broke the ice really well.
 

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Is she just shy around you or does she get nervous when she is around you?
 

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Originally posted by OpenMind
Is she just shy around you or does she get nervous when she is around you?
Yeah I agree that she's more nervous.. and that's why she appears Shy.
 

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What i have found is that when a female is nervous around me it is because they are sweating me.. and have high interest.... bottom line.. why would a female get nervous around you unless she feels that she may have something to lose... don't sweat this... use it to your advantage.. be cool around her and make her feel very comfortable.. but you MUST be the one to make the moves and u MUST be confident in the moves you make... when she is nervous that means her interest level is sky high.. been there done that.. the more confident you appear the quicker they drop their wall and chase you.. go for it! good luck!
 

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Yeah I appreciate the advice i've gotten but another question keeps popping up in my head. When I make the first moves, doesn't that make me less of a challenge no matter how confident I look because after awhile she will expect it? and also whenever I talk to her and she's nervous it keeps making me think if she's trying to ignore me.. is that a good sign?
 
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You just answered your own question PEACE DJ

Be unpredictable.

Hell, surprise YOURSELF!
 

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Originally posted by PEACEDJ
Yeah I appreciate the advice i've gotten but another question keeps popping up in my head. When I make the first moves, doesn't that make me less of a challenge no matter how confident I look because after awhile she will expect it? and also whenever I talk to her and she's nervous it keeps making me think if she's trying to ignore me.. is that a good sign?
You have 680 posts and you are asking questions like this? What kind of advice are you giving.............................
man grow up! Ask for her digits, call her up, go on a date, eventually after a few dates she will begin to feel more comfortable around you, she prob just really likes you, what is wrong with that? you should be happy!
 
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