"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok I have been trying to get this shy woman to open up. I am alomst positive she likes me. I have a plan and want to know if it is ok or will it make me look like a fool.

The plan is to go in to the Chinese resturant that she works at tonight with a friend and while I am getting my food my friend will be at the counter paying for his and will say "Which one here is Pam? She will say I am Pam then he will say something like oh my friend likes you, he talked about you before."

Is this Ok to do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So what should I do? I am like out of ideas.
 

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it might be as simple as

"hey pam, i'm going to this ...... on ........, wanna come?"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
Yeah, that might work if you are still in junior high...
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Ok, first of all Chinese chicks are hard as hell to sarge, even if you are Chinese. Second, build some rapport with her before asking her out, who knows she may be a bore. Sooo...........

Say "Hey Pam, wow you guys are busy." (If they are busy)

or

"Hey Pam, how is business looks like it mellowed out, you are always busy, right?" (If they are not busy)

Then move on to other topics, e.g., her family, the dog, the rats out in the dumpter, the cat soup is delicious, the crickets are really crunchy...blah, blah, blah...


Vishnu KUMAR! :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by itstough
So what should I do? I am like out of ideas.
You've been here for nearly 3 years and you don't know how to talk to a girl?

Here's the deal. We have this thing called the DJ Bible, which you should definitely read, then re-read. After that, you should try doing a few searches to see if "How do I start a conversation with a girl I like" has ever been brought up before. :rolleyes:
 
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