"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Talked to this girl on tinder, but wasn't getting any responses that shouted hi interest, but she was still responding lol. I eventually go for the kill and ask for her number and I get it lol. She starts being more responsive lol and talks about what she is doing tonight. She was complaining about being tired and stuff, but was still hinting to meetup lol. I didn't want to **** her on the first encounter, so me and my roommate met her at a local bar. It was awkward because she didn't say much at all and her friend was the mother hen of the friendship pretty much. I didn't get to really talk to her at all lol. Her friend eventually said she was too tired and wanted to leave lol. I sent her it was a nice meeting up you text like a hour later and I got an immediate response lol. I feel like I'm going to have to do most of the initiating and didn't seem like I was interested in her during the whole date, so how should I approach this lol?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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