"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shy or not interested

thunderbolt

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when you talk to a girl and she looks down or turns away, is that shyness or low interest? or is it a sh!t test?
i made an approach yesterday. we talked for a min but she kept looking down away while she talked. felt like low interest. body language says a lot but its different with every woman thats whats confusing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Between_The_Lines

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Did you get the number? If so, arrange a date. Then escalate until you close or get blown out. Push her into action or all out rejecting you. Try to stay away from trying to decipher cryptic messages and body language, keep moving things along and get her to do things. This is what you should be judging her on - what she does - instead of how she acts, what she says, what she doesn't say, that sort of thing.
 
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