Shy Girls?! Course of Action for a Type I am NOT Used To

[cyo72]

Hey guys,

I'm a freshman at university and for the first time, I am interested in a VERY different girl.

Typically, I have been involved with the real sexual and fun ladies. Recently though, I have kind of fallen for this girl who is conservative--sexually (Lets say shy). So, my question is.. what the hell do I do?

I feel like I cannot make the same kind of physical moves on this girl. I feel I should be revealing my interest partly through words. I sense a bit of interest, but not enough that Im willing to go out on a major limb considering I see her so often for school reasons. I keep thinking that seeing her more often to search for better signals, but this girl is shy, so I think I could be wasting my time looking for them.

Typically, I let actions speak for themselves, but in this case I worry it will be too forward. What do you guys suggest?

Should I invite her on an "official" date and go from there.. or would that kill chemistry.

Is there perhaps some tests or things I should be looking for? Excluding the trivial "playing with her hair" and "tilting her head" or what not.

Thanks all

Many views and no replies.... do you guys have NO advice?

 

[jbrunner_ipa]

damnit it's people like you. Ive been thinking and this is another reason for me to not want to date any college chics. If i ever do get interested in a girl ....i make sure she doesn't go to mine or any other college because i wouldn't touch a college chic with a ten foot pole...or more frankly, my six inches. Guys seriously...if a girl is conservative sexually, let her stay that way because i'm gonna run into somebody I like one day and may want to get married and i don't want to die of a disease.

 

[cyo72]

Originally posted by jbrunner_ipa
if a girl is conservative sexually, let her stay that way because i'm gonna run into somebody I like one day and may want to get married and i don't want to die of a disease.

Lol, are you implying that she is the type of girl that one day, you would get married with.. meaning a girl that hasnt been with a bus load of guys.

But yo, I feel you.. I used to be lustin after those ladies, but now, once a joke, I actually believe the ladies' boobs take a backseat to their personalities.

Basically, I dont really get that above statement.

 

[cyo72]

No suggestions??

 

[chlywly]

Well it's simple; just get to know her, obviously invite her out on a date, have a good time; little bit of kino/mental kino etc... Keep it real, keep it fun be whitty, same **** as usual, just might take a little longer; baby-steps.

 

[shyguy]

shy grils i got you

Well im taking this girl out for the 4 time and she is shy , was at first and very conservative lets say. if u dont have patience just move on. Im taking it slow, espeically becuase i got the info out of her instead of just body language, she has told me before about her ex boyfriends.

how they tried to move in to quick and all. So i basically took it slow. Each date i almost set a so called goal for myself on how stupid that might sound. But so far last date that was the 3rd date we were making out, and i got invited over next time. So i know im going in the right direction

many people on the board say, that a kiss on the first date freching and making out is no big deal. i agree,but not for all chicks. So if u really like this girl and want to bang out, unless u can sweep her off her feet, i beleive you have some work to do and some time to invest.

I would see how far you can get with her each time and see how she reacts that way you know where u stand

 

[MrBond007]

Heres how I handled a shy virgin religious untouchable girl last summer:

1-I was always overly macho and almost stereotipically manly in front of her or anyone.I had to show extreme sexual vibes to make it look natural.

2-I never hesitated to talk about sex with her and some type of "you know when people feel close", **** like that.

3-On the second day, I randomly asked her "Is it because you find me attractive and sexy?" to random statements she would make.She agreed of course.

4-She got her first(and prolly the best she ll ever have) sex of her life(she really was a virgin,at 18!I checked down there to be sure) on the third day.

So I basically got laid in 3 days.People she knew told her I was an hearthless macho but by talking some "telepathic emotions" stuff,she actually told me, on the first time weve met, that I was very different than what people told me.

Thats something pretty cool when a girl tells you this,.You can reply right off the bat by:"Do you mean that I am an really the greatest man you`ve ever met?".

All this was tested//approved by me btw.Thats not theory ****.

Always keep in mind that to get the shy girl, you most look/act very dominant.

 

[cyo72]

Holla.. good points/story

Though apart from physical moves, you may have never blatantly indicated interest through your words. I think flirting can be interpreted as simply being friendly.

So to discover her interest (or not), I have to give her some indication of my attraction. As I mentioned a physical indication may not work... my feelling is that I should literally say... "would you like to go on a date?" This pretty much indicates my entire intentions but as I previously mentioned, it could kill chemistry and mystery...

do you guys agree/disagree or have any comments?

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by cyo72
Holla.. good points/story

Though apart from physical moves, you may have never blatantly indicated interest through your words. I think flirting can be interpreted as simply being friendly.

So to discover her interest (or not), I have to give her some indication of my attraction. As I mentioned a physical indication may not work... my feelling is that I should literally say... "would you like to go on a date?" This pretty much indicates my entire intentions but as I previously mentioned, it could kill chemistry and mystery...

do you guys agree/disagree or have any comments?

Stop asking questions and makes statements:

Go out with me on a date on X.

 

[OpenMind]

What to do with a sexually conservative chick? the same thing you do with any chick. DJ her! Be the man, have fun with her, be a challange and make her sweat you. Someone has to break her in right? Why not you... remember, every sexually liberal chick (SL*T) was once a sexually conservative chick beforehand.........good luck!

 

[cyo72]

Originally posted by MrBond007
Stop asking questions and makes statements:

Go out with me on a date on X.

Thats pretty much all I needed to know. lol

Thanks a lot

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by cyo72
Thats pretty much all I needed to know. lol

Thanks a lot

Note that by making statements, its really harder for her to answer "no".

It works with everyone too.Use that to your advantage.

 

[OpenMind]

Besides, girls aren't born sluts, sluts are made.... and stop thinking about her as sexually conservative because you will set limits in your mind that she will reject your advances... she is shy cuz she is nervous.. she is nervous cuz she wants you.. so bend that (_|_) over and do what ya gotta do

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by OpenMind
Besides, girls aren't born sluts, sluts are made.... and stop thinking about her as sexually conservative because you will set limits in your mind that she will reject your advances...

I beg to differ.Some people are born faggets, remember?

 

[OpenMind]

im not gonna get into that debate.. a guy can easily turn his girl into a slut.. but no sense in arguing.. i agree to disagree

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by OpenMind
im not gonna get into that debate.. a guy can easily turn his girl into a slut.. but no sense in arguing.. i agree to disagree

So then lets disagree.

I love pussy.You therefore love cock.

 

[OpenMind]

LOL keep your fantasies to yourself.. pvssy is on my platter every night of the week..

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by OpenMind
LOL keep your fantasies to yourself.. pvssy is on my platter every night of the week..

OMG OMG! DISAGREEMENTS DISAGREEMENTS!!!!

 

[OpenMind]

LOL glad we got that shyt settled

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by OpenMind
LOL glad we got that shyt settled

Fair enough.