Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Probably. Really but give us more info on this girl and such.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't let any of that bug it, its a TEST. Even if she is telling you the truth, the fact that she is telling you is a test. Apply VERY subtle kino if you can. Be warm and then ****y/funny and warm again. Be dynamic. Attract her and show her you are the alpha maleOriginally posted by jakeyboy
thanks for the helpful information guys, its given me a better view of the situation
ok well shes basically being a pain right now. she's contemplating if she likes me, in addition to 2 other dudes, leaving us hanging there. so what the hell should i say to her to let her know who's boss and that i aint got time to play her silly games? i really really need help on this one... any insight would be very much appreciated...