Shy girl ... confusing me !!!

[Tkman]

Wednesday:

This chick at work was giving me all the buy signals .... staring at me, standing beside me, smiling at me etc. Anyways, I start a small chit-chat with her and tried to # close her but she gave me her email (Maybe because she is shy? who knows?). We would chat couple of times @ work by emailing each other.

Thursday:

This chick and I, have different working shift, so I asked her to meet me at the cafe because my lunch is the same time her break is that day, her respond was "I'll will try" (in other words - Yes !!!). She comes over to the cafe, I chatted with her about work, what does she do? etc .... this girl get's so nervous and shy when I give her eye contact (she wouldn't stop playing with her hands). I started to throw in some Jokes/Humour in the conversation just to make her feel a little better, she digs it, starts laughing !!!

Friday:

My plan today was to close the deal, I will just ask her out ... we both have the weekend off. Now, remember everytime I walk by this chicks office she wouldn't stop staring at me. So, I asked her again when was her break and it wasn't the same time I have lunch. So, I emailed .........

Me: "what are you doing this weekend?"
her: "bla bla bla"
Me: "let's go to movie, there are couple of good ones coming out".
her: "ummm.... I don't know. I am going out to bla bla"

Some points here:

- She get's nervous/shy when I am face to face with her !

I took that as a positive sign or am I wrong, why else would she be if she did not High Interest Level ?

- The way she dresses is totally opposite of her personality. I am not saying her cloth are revealing but makes you wanna "bang that ass".

I have a friend debating, I should not because she maybe to shy and I need to take it slower !

NEXT HER OR NOT ?

 

[Disturbed]

I say go for her. The ball is in your court dude, the girl's gots the charms for you. She could 'nt imagine rejecting you cuz she finds you so hot. That is why she is so nervous when she is around you. She may not be worth it for a LTR because her lack of self-confidence will get to you later on. But she might be worth a fu<k if she puts out since you mentioned that she had a bangin' bod.

 

[PRMoon]

seems like youre in control of this one. I would say just keep a little light preasure on her and she'll cave no problem. Keep some friendly convo going with her and things should work out.

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by Disturbed
I say go for her. The ball is in your court dude, the girl's gots the charms for you. She could 'nt imagine rejecting you cuz she finds you so hot. That is why she is so nervous when she is around you. She may not be worth it for a LTR because her lack of self-confidence will get to you later on. But she might be worth a fu<k if she puts out since you mentioned that she had a bangin' bod.

You nailed it ... thanks for advice.

Originally posted by PRMoon
seems like youre in control of this one. I would say just keep a little light preasure on her and she'll cave no problem. Keep some friendly convo going with her and things should work out.

That's what exactly my friend and I were debating,

Me: "That's it man I am going to next her"
Him: "No, you need to take keep working it. You will eventually get that booty. It just takes time"

 

[Devil_In_Disguise]

She sounds like she could be good LTR material. If you're in it for more than just the sex I think it's worthwhile.

 

[Tkman]

The plan :

- keep friendly convo going
- keep using ****y / funny
- keep little pressure