Shy girl advice

[tryst type]

Been talking to a girl who is very shy, has social anxiety, and personally told me is in the most boring relationship anyone can be in but has learned to like the guy.

I'm wondering how I should approach this, I want this girl but don't want any bf drama that could come from it.

Also what I'm mostly curious about is how do you turn a shy girl into a sex deviant. She's very reluctant to any sexual discussion and claims to be boring sexually. How do I break her out of that shell?

 

[Skel]

Why would you want a girl with social anxiety?

 

[tryst type]

Because she's not your typical girl who plays games. Doesn't matter why really, just looking for some advice. Anyone?

 

[Warboss Alex]

she has a boyfriend. stay away. how would you like it if someone did that to your girlfriend?

I dunno what rules you DJs play by, but in the squat, steak and eggs world we never go after another dude's girl.

'sides, if she's with him it means she likes him and wants to be with him, regardless of what she says to you.

 

[KontrollerX]

A lot of the time that shy thing is just a bunch of crap.

An act to make you think you are in control when really its the girl.

You persue this one and get her eventually when she tires of you some other guy will get in her ear and she'll be saying how boring you are to him.

Listen to Warboss Alex and stay far away from her.

A chick that will leave her boyfriend for you will leave you too.

Also you are jumping the gun to assume she doesn't play games.

You could be getting played right now by her.

The ones that seem the least dangerous tend to be the most dangerous.

Thats the way it works.

 

[tryst type]

I believe that kontroller X but my friend dates her best friend and he told me she's weird in that she never hooks up, plays games, very quiet type. A genuine nice girl.

 

[Skel]

she has a boyfriend. stay away. how would you like it if someone did that to your girlfriend?

I dunno what rules you DJs play by, but in the squat, steak and eggs world we never go after another dude's girl.

'sides, if she's with him it means she likes him and wants to be with him, regardless of what she says to you.

That's crap. If the guy isnt a friend of yours its all good. What is a boyfriend/girflriend? A temporary friend until you find an upgrade.

 

[Warboss Alex]

That's crap. If the guy isnt a friend of yours its all good. What is a boyfriend/girflriend? A temporary friend until you find an upgrade.

that is your mentality, it is definitely not mine. do what you want.

okay, back to H&F with me, I don't belong in the real world..

 

[zennon]

If she has a boyfriend already, forget her. Guys have enough problems already without other guys stealing their women. Hands off!

 

[J-dog]

If she has a boyfriend already, forget her. Guys have enough problems already without other guys stealing their women. Hands off!

Well yeah!!!!!
Don't steal the girl or you are a died man!!!!!!!!
I friend of mine did the same thing, he's lucky he isn't beaten!!!
Becouse he ran away like a girl!!!!!
Hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:crackup:

 

[knglerxt]

Also what I'm mostly curious about is how do you turn a shy girl into a sex deviant. She's very reluctant to any sexual discussion and claims to be boring sexually. How do I break her out of that shell?

If she's that shy, how did you even get her to tell you about her sex life?

 

[tryst type]

If she's that shy, how did you even get her to tell you about her sex life?

i havent yet, i tried and she said "i'm boring sexually nothing to talk about"

 

[funketekun]

she has a boyfriend. stay away. how would you like it if someone did that to your girlfriend?

I dunno what rules you DJs play by, but in the squat, steak and eggs world we never go after another dude's girl.

'sides, if she's with him it means she likes him and wants to be with him, regardless of what she says to you.

I think we should go after any girl w/wo bf. Do not cut off your chances. Also, girls with bf are hotter and more challenging. I think to be a real DJ you have to go agaisnt any challenge. That's what I think. I know the bible doesn't say so.

 

[Warboss Alex]

I think we should go after any girl w/wo bf.

again that is your mentality, it is not mine and I do not agree with it. that said the only Bible I've ever read talks about Jesus and I'm by no stretch of the imagination a DJ nor do I have any aspirations to be one.

however:

provided the bf isn't a wifebeater/drunkard/etc then the girl just found you more interesting temporarily and went for you.. you will also be discarded when someone else comes along. if you are cool with this and just want the girl for the 'lay' or the 'trophy' or whatever else, and don't have any intention of keeping her then fine - but just know that you'll be dumped in the same way.

if you don't want it done to you don't do it to other people.. simple as that. it WILL happen to you if you do it.

there is also of course the small matter of, if the girl rejects you and tells her boyfriend, you will be in trouble.

 

[Grizou]

I reckon Warboss said it all.
You seem to be attracted to that girl, amongst other things, due to the fact she seems trustworthy and integer in her relationship(s).
If you would manage to get her away from her current boyfriend, you'd just be pursuing an illusion, maybe asking yourself "maybe she's gonna run away from me too for some other dude". She may be shy now, but once you've broken her integrity you may never be sure about it again.

In my opinion: hands off, causes less trouble.

 

[Sandow]

the shy ones are always the kinkiest in bed

 

[aliasguy]

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Warbucks Alex wrote:

"again that is your mentality, it is not mine and I do not agree with it. that said the only Bible I've ever read talks about Jesus and I'm by no stretch of the imagination a DJ nor do I have any aspirations to be one."




Hey, I just had a thought ---- how do we know that Jesus WASN'T a DJ?

Maybe he was, after all. He led a (admittedly small) group, he had some chicks around, he bucked the "system," he pissed off the big boys, he was his OWN MAN. He did what he thought/knew was RIGHT.

He probably knew everything about how to deal with women. He's the "big guy," right? He HAD to have been the biggest DJ EVER.


I think on Pook's blog, there was a post about this. Something like "Jesus was a badass," or something.



Everybody sing... c'mon, you know the words.....

"Iiiiiiiiii don't know how to looooove him." (It's from Jesus Christ, Superstar.)


( BTW, I vote for hitting HARD on this little shy chick w/ the BF. Nail her. )

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[skirtChaser]

this guys a putz, he doesn't want to hear the truth, he's waiting for some advice he wants to hear and not the truth.
go for it...even after everybody said no. girl sounds lame, and you sound even more lame.