Shy..Drunk and Likes Me...Shy and being Played?

[stepupthegame]

Shy..Drunk and Likes Me...Shy and being Played? PICS

She is an HB 11 guys- my gut says that something is wrong if she can't express love to me without being drunk...lol

So I talk to this chick on plentyoffish.com on the phone about 4 times for several hours each. We decide to meet finally(me pushing the envelope).

I show up at her friends house- her friend has a bf over- I buy everyone liquor but don't drink(my mistake- tho i dont drink i should have had 1 wine cooler) - she probably thinks I schemed that idea or something- tho her and her friend and friends bf wanted to get drunk.

Shes distant and shy to me in the car before we go back to her friends and get the drinks. After several shots she warms up to me and sooner or later I'm on the couch giving her boob/back massages and she makes out with me. She says it's perfect and I should be a "massage person" since she usually doesn't like massages.

We wake up on this small couch early in the morning to the landlord which means we have to get out of the apartment. I take her home and shes kind of like I cant believe I acted that way- and you weren't drunk...sort of thing.

Anyways- she gets out of the car when i drop her off just sort of without a real goodbye or hug and says "I understand if you don't want to hang out with me again" and then makes a comment about fixing her plumbers crack etc.

HB 11/10 guys- she lives in multiple places- she's 18 and homeschooled highschool through the internet. Her friends place was like 45 min from mine (longer than I thought). She woke up and was kind of back to her shy distant self. She kept stressingon the phone that we were just going to have a friend date or whatever...and that she takes like 3 months to warm up to guys- she prob gets hit on a lot. I kind of laughed when she almost teared my face off making out with me.

Today as I'm driving home after dropping her off she leaves her clothes bag in my car. I hint that we will hang out again and I'll bring it. She says she'll call me in 20 mins after she eats and never does.

Possible head games? I brought up the fact that she was a good kisser or something in the morning and she was kind of like don't tell me anymore of that in a joking way. I really think that she does like me- shes shy, and was thrown off by me not drinking but paying for the liquor I guess- and meeting her on the internet.

My plan is to play it cool and see if she calls me within the next 2 days- otherwise I'll put a "sincere" call into her and just say thanks for the fun time and see if I can't schedule a date to drop the bag off.

I like her and wouldn't mind having her as my GF. She is smoking hot guys. Kind of weird that she was living at grandma's house now supposedly moving to her dad's- and the whole "shyness" thing throws me off- I'm thinking she broke her values off not like letting a guy feel her boobs on the first date and her get wasted...idk. At this point I don't want to appear to be foaming at hte mouth but don't want her to think i'm uninterested or just looking for a booty call...lol I do what her to think that I like her I guess.

How to play these cards brothers?



My thoughts on the psychological emotional factors she's thinking about-
1) The fact that I bought booze for everyone and didn't drink
2) The fact that I traveled roughly 1 hour to get there
3) "Does he just want in my pants?" etc.

I would say the above 2 left a negative emotional impression on her that she is trying to forget...

4) on the phone she said most guys fall in love with her... lol

 

[Szyzzlin]

put a "sincere" call into her and just say thanks for the fun time

Don't put in some gay call thanking her for the fun time. Call her up and ask her out. Also, who cares if she doesn't call you 20min after she says. All girls do this... their trying to be all cool and sh*t and seeing if you'll give in and call them. Don't do it, call her in 3 days and only for the reason to go out with her again.

 

[MisterMcGee]

pic or she's not an hb11

 

[Ollie]

I like her and wouldn't mind having her as my GF. She is smoking hot guys. Kind of weird that she was living at grandma's house now supposedly moving to her dad's- and the whole "shyness" thing throws me off- I'm thinking she broke her values off not like letting a guy feel her boobs on the first date and her get wasted...idk. At this point I don't want to appear to be foaming at hte mouth but don't want her to think i'm uninterested or just looking for a booty call...lol I do what her to think that I like her I guess.
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Dude seriously you need to read the stuff on this site if you haven't and if you have you need to start applying it. In my experience it's never a good idea to hang out with girls who are drinking and not drink...you should nurse a drink or at least make them think you're drinking yourself, cause the next day of course she's going to feel weird. Instead of her thinking "Wow we got so drunk last night" and validating what happened in her mind she feels like she did something wrong cause you were stone sober and that will cause tension in a negative way. You want tension but positive tension. And on top of her feeling awkward she probably feels like you were a bit of a creep. Think about it from her perspective.

And if she told you guys always fall in love with her fast why are you so intent on letting her know you like her? You'll be just like every other guy and there will be no mystery involved. Once she thinks you like her her interest level will drop fast. If it's in a few months after she's earned it it's different, but after hanging out one time if you immediately latch onto her she'll think it's just because she's pretty and she'll be right. You can't possibly know her well enough at this point to want her to be your girlfriend. If you want her to know you're interested, do it by hanging out with her and showing her you're interested in her not by telling her.

You need to pull her out of her comfort zone and make her chase you...something it doesn't seem like she does much. You do this by being aloof and mysterious, not by calling her and saying how much fun you had and offering to drive an hour to drop off her bag of clothes. Seriously read the articles on the site. They'll really open your eyes.

 

[stepupthegame]

she said our makeout was perfect and I made her a believer in back massages - hopefully she remembered it. I will act aloof and nurse a beer next time- hopefully get rid of that weirdo impression. In the mean time i will not chase, just replace. Get her out of her comfort zone- she likes funny guys and would marry jack black she said.

It was weird after I was giving her a back massage she didn't say anything then asked me If I could keep my hands off here- not rhetorically- just an honest question. So after that I said yes I can restrain myself and she's like that's good you are honest...etc.

It was just weird- she said stop it that feels so good- etc. and she was honest because she nearly ripped my face off making out.