"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay Ive got a major problem. I think some people think im annoying. Today I was in the library and I saw a table with a bunch of people from my math class. So I went and sat down. And like a minute and a half later three quarters of them just left the table. Later that period, I went to sit down with this one chick who was talking to me during English, and I told her we'd talk later (cuz i was trying to concentrate). So I sat down with her and she was just like "you see that door. USE IT." I feel like my actions caused this somehow. Anyways i need some guidance from all you Djs.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Burnnn! :crackup:

Yeah...you don't have that cool factor. Figure out why (even ask them why you aren't cool (and hold in the inner baby)), and change it. It might be more then one thing, or just one thing. Maybe your pants are too small, you have a evil laugh or your hand is too big. People are superficial. :up:
 

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Burnnn! :crackup:

Yeah...you don't have that cool factor. Figure out why (even ask them why you aren't cool (and hold in the inner baby)), and change it. It might be more then one thing, or just one thing. Maybe your pants are too small, you have a evil laugh or your hand is too big. People are superficial. :up:
Ugh! How do I gain this cool factor. I'm usually not shy to go up and talk to ppl (out of class cuz im a nerd and listen in class). I just dont know what it is
 

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That's why you might have to ASK them why, or figure it out. Do you wear bad looking classes, have a fro, wear outdated/small clothes, you have a funny voice, you can't shut up, you say stupid things, you talk back to people?

It's things like that that annoy people, or give them a reason to laugh/pick/uncoolize you.

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