"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shrapnel from 1942

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This is from german plain that bombed these places back in 1942 - 1943 not later. Germans never come here, front was 80 km away, they got stopped there by brave men. But it was war here as well, planes were flying, bombing targets. This is shrapnel from one of those bombs. Back during the war, german pow's were digging trenches here, there was red army installations, and planes bombed.

I found it today in some bushes.

Often, these are found ingrown in trees.

Wait, I'm soon going to mountain path, were fighting was heavy, I'll bring back some pics for you.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's pretty cool. I've read that farmers in France still find World War I shells when they're turning over soil.
Happens all the time. I found a mauser bajonet years ago while gardening. I live in germany.
It‘s also not uncommon here that construction workers find american duds under city streets or at construction sides.
 
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