carrot said:
showmanship fame personality
I concluded that those most engineers,details oriented people dont have this
possible by modelling those who went from being detail oriented,techie,geek into being showman
any good books related to showman personality
you know why about showmanship ,
its the fastest way to girls
I used to think this too until I analyzed it a little.
First of all, I'm an electro-mechanical engineer with a certification in network engineering, and yet I'm in show business.
Then about 2 years ago somebody said to me "Atom Smasher, have you ever noticed how many musicians are actually computer and science geeks?" It had never dawned on me before, but I was forced to realize than many of the musicians I know are computer geeks and scientifically-minded. My gut would have told me otherwise (it's seemingly common sense) but when I really looked at it I had to change my perception.
One thing I can say for sure is this: Intelligence is not sexy to women. Better stated, an intelligent man has to dumb down his interactions with women drastically and display only a narrow band of his intelligence in order not to bore her or scare her away.
An intelligent man's perceptions on life are incomprehensible to women. Have you EVER come upon two or more women discussing the meaning of life or the space-time continuum? Even things such as the stars and planets. They are such simple creatures, taking life at face value with not one iota of care about the larger/cosmic aspects of life. Their entire world is their little social web. My world is the entire universe, and I know that is true of many of you here.
So if you unleash your intelligence upon a woman, she will glaze over and display a total lack of comprehension. She will not be attracted to that. Take it from me. I didn't learn that till I was in my late 40s!
The way to leverage your intelligence is to use a few big words every now and then that she doesn't comprehend (instant DHV), and display technical prowess. When she sees you in ACTION, demonstrating mastery over the physical world that she finds so incomprehensible that she never even thinks about it (only "feels" that it's something she'd rather no know about), she will fall in love with you.
So when you keep your intelligence in check, and also display showmanship, that seems to be the magic formula. Revel in your intelligence with other men as you discuss quantum mechanics and space/time. But with women, do not revel, rather LEVERAGE your intelligence. Use it for striking deadly blows with pinpoint accuracy. A big word here, a knowing smirk there. Big words that she cannot comprehend are HUGE because women are aurally stimulated (not orally, dummy. Verbally.) Harness that intelligence to make her FEEL. Therein lies the golden ticket to nirvana for the intelligent man.
Sorry, a bit of a hijack here but hopefully usefull. But again to address the OP, if you look around you might find that contrary to what common sense would indicate, many artists (especially in the music field) are actually techno-geeks at heart. It's a strange world....