"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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showmanship fame personality

I concluded that those most engineers,details oriented people dont have this

possible by modelling those who went from being detail oriented,techie,geek into being showman
any good books related to showman personality


you know why about showmanship ,
its the fastest way to girls
 

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That's just because the education system forces people to mostly train the left brain, especially when studying something like math. I am a very technical left-brain type of person, and I try to think logically. When talking to people though I have to let the technical logical thinking slide to the back of my mind. You can use your logic to analyse people as well. Logic also allows for a lot of humor. For example when you compare male logic to female logic. There's nothing wrong being analytical, especially if you think outside the box or if you're able to predict or read other people's thoughts.

It's fine to be a deep thinker, as long as you are still in touch with your environment and with your wants and needs and not off on some mental masturbatory escapade.

Being detail oriented can also help you out with ladies. It impresses them if you know what they're drinking, or their preferred drink. You can also comment on the details of a womans clothing.

Stating the obvious, or stating the opposite of the obvious(sarcasm) can also be funny. I like to mention the details of things I see to people, because sometimes they think it but never say it. I like to take my analytical thinking and apply it to everyday situations. Never take anything at face value.

The most important thing I have to say though, is this: Don't think. Feel.
 

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carrot said:
showmanship fame personality

I concluded that those most engineers,details oriented people dont have this

possible by modelling those who went from being detail oriented,techie,geek into being showman
any good books related to showman personality


you know why about showmanship ,
its the fastest way to girls
I used to think this too until I analyzed it a little.

First of all, I'm an electro-mechanical engineer with a certification in network engineering, and yet I'm in show business.

Then about 2 years ago somebody said to me "Atom Smasher, have you ever noticed how many musicians are actually computer and science geeks?" It had never dawned on me before, but I was forced to realize than many of the musicians I know are computer geeks and scientifically-minded. My gut would have told me otherwise (it's seemingly common sense) but when I really looked at it I had to change my perception.

One thing I can say for sure is this: Intelligence is not sexy to women. Better stated, an intelligent man has to dumb down his interactions with women drastically and display only a narrow band of his intelligence in order not to bore her or scare her away.

An intelligent man's perceptions on life are incomprehensible to women. Have you EVER come upon two or more women discussing the meaning of life or the space-time continuum? Even things such as the stars and planets. They are such simple creatures, taking life at face value with not one iota of care about the larger/cosmic aspects of life. Their entire world is their little social web. My world is the entire universe, and I know that is true of many of you here.

So if you unleash your intelligence upon a woman, she will glaze over and display a total lack of comprehension. She will not be attracted to that. Take it from me. I didn't learn that till I was in my late 40s!

The way to leverage your intelligence is to use a few big words every now and then that she doesn't comprehend (instant DHV), and display technical prowess. When she sees you in ACTION, demonstrating mastery over the physical world that she finds so incomprehensible that she never even thinks about it (only "feels" that it's something she'd rather no know about), she will fall in love with you.

So when you keep your intelligence in check, and also display showmanship, that seems to be the magic formula. Revel in your intelligence with other men as you discuss quantum mechanics and space/time. But with women, do not revel, rather LEVERAGE your intelligence. Use it for striking deadly blows with pinpoint accuracy. A big word here, a knowing smirk there. Big words that she cannot comprehend are HUGE because women are aurally stimulated (not orally, dummy. Verbally.) Harness that intelligence to make her FEEL. Therein lies the golden ticket to nirvana for the intelligent man.

Sorry, a bit of a hijack here but hopefully usefull. But again to address the OP, if you look around you might find that contrary to what common sense would indicate, many artists (especially in the music field) are actually techno-geeks at heart. It's a strange world....
 
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