SHOWING your EMOTIONS (Read if you're a relationship DJ)

[Buz]

Hi DJ friends...
I'm in a serious relationship now for one month and my girlfriend is really emotional with me, she always says what she is feeling and she also says to me that i should share my feelings with her too - but as we know, getting too emotional, sharing feeling is kinda AFCish on 99% of the cases... i never had this type of personality when attracting women (including her) - but our relationship is very solid now and i know that she's really into me... how far on emotional, needy etc. can i be on this level of the relationship?
thanks everybody
Buz

 

[becker]

Once you get into a committed relationship, I believe that a lot of this stuff that would seem AFC would be ok, such as showing your emotions. How do you expect to build a relationship if you're just cold to her the whole time? Sometimes you need to stray from the rules a bit. Rules are not set in stone here, and some flexibility and good judgment is called for.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Damn people, please be clear with your "dating info" - How can someone have a "serious relationship" for 1 month?

1 month = dating potential

3 months = girlfriend/boyfriend potential

5 months = long term potential (NOW IT GETS SERIOUS)

 

[Chip]

I would have to agree with DJ_Dork.
You two have only been going out for 1 month, which is not long enough.
She could be testing you with this emontional openess crap.