Showing TOO MUCH value??

[Funlol]

Ok.. so I think I shot myself in the foot with these girls.

I live in Boston right near Harvard University.. I've been doing an experiment with the few girls I've met recently. Basically - I lie and tell them I'm a Harvard graduate. Whenever girls here this, their eyes light up. It's hilarious.

With this lie, I'm getting a much higher quality of girl. I'm with 8s and 9s now whereas before I would be getting 6s and 7s. HOWEVER, it's taking me WAY TOO long to F close them... And they talk about getting into a realtionship and "taking it slow" with me much more than the usual girls.

Did I f*ck myself over here? Is there a way to do this but ALSO get them in bed fast?

Any thoughts appreciated.

 

[GettinLuckyAintLuck]

being a compulsive lier isn't the way to get women, start being honest with yourself...

 

[1337]

there was a discussion about this already on this board. You sealed yourself into the provider position the rich guy who can provide security and stability. Naturally girls would pick a guy out of instinct for long term or reserve you for marriage, therefore they will withhold sex and act like "good little girls" to keep you leashed till its marriage time right, after they've screwed the whole undergrad liberal arts class of X year and the athletics division.

Rich and high status guys(providers) don't get laid often unless they pay for it or their true djs and have self worth. Its true they get girls but its what they have that attracts them not who they are. I suggest you stop stunting and be your legit self.

 

[Zarky]

I disagree with the above posters. Rich dudes (or those appearing rich) can get laid easier than poor dudes, IF, they play hardball.

You simply have to set the frame early. It's actually much easier for a rich guy to get laid easily, but most rich guys take the comfortable path and spend money and then they get jerked around.

Just set the frame as, "Yes I have lots of money but no I'm not an idiot and I don't throw money at women, I'm careful and wise and looking to get even richer in the long run." Chicks will respect this greatly and will flock and give it up now in the hopes that you will like them and have a LTR with them.

If you're a rich guy spending money on women, you're doing something wrong. As the very rich know, the more money you have, the less you need to spend to get what you want. Just the possibility of money is a great motivator for women (and men too).

Like the line in Withnail and I .... "Free to those who can afford it, very expensive to those who can't."

 

[zekko]

Naturally girls would pick a guy out of instinct for long term or reserve you for marriage, therefore they will withhold sex and act like "good little girls" to keep you leashed till its marriage time

No girl is going to withhold sex until marriage. They might hold out for a few dates. I don't see this as a bad thing. If they see you as a high value guy they'll be on their best behavior. It's a compliment to you, not an insult. It shows they don't think of you as disposable. It may be a problem if you see them as disposable, but are you so impatient that you can't wait a few days? What's going to happen, are your balls going to explode?

Rich and high status guys(providers) don't get laid often unless they pay for it or their true djs and have self worth. Its true they get girls but its what they have that attracts them not who they are.

This line of thinking is just disinformation from pickup gurus trying to sell you something. First off, why wouldn't a high status guy have self worth? It's true some don't, but they're no more likey to have self esteem issues than low status guys, and probably less. No self respecting high status guy is going to have to pay for sex.

Second, a guy who is successful is attractive. It's not just what he has. It's who he is that has cultivated that success. If a guy can't get it together and be successful, what is so attractive about that?