So I've been at this for awhile now and I haven't had much success. While I can talk to anybody, both girls and guys, and fit in just about anywhere no matter who the crowd is I still never get past being just friends with girls. I've looked through tons of material and applied everything I could about the personality and how a masculine male portrays himself and all that but still nothing.
Every girl swears I'm a player and I have girls lined up but really I don't. The girls that I have interest in and try to pursue usually end up with boyfriends or just see me as a friend or I lose interest in them because they're not what I'm looking for. I'm pretty sure it's because I'm not showing enough interest or because I fail to make a move, which is kinda hard for me considering that I'm 16 and I've never even had my first kiss yet so the thought of just blindly kissing a girl out the blue seems awkward.
So are there certain things I'm supposed to do/say to let her know that I'm interested? Because I have asked girls to chill with me before but it hasn't really worked out. And do you have any tips on escalating.?
Every girl swears I'm a player and I have girls lined up but really I don't. The girls that I have interest in and try to pursue usually end up with boyfriends or just see me as a friend or I lose interest in them because they're not what I'm looking for. I'm pretty sure it's because I'm not showing enough interest or because I fail to make a move, which is kinda hard for me considering that I'm 16 and I've never even had my first kiss yet so the thought of just blindly kissing a girl out the blue seems awkward.
So are there certain things I'm supposed to do/say to let her know that I'm interested? Because I have asked girls to chill with me before but it hasn't really worked out. And do you have any tips on escalating.?
