"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Showing interest

crossboss

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I show too much interest in girls at first. I stare at them a lot. What are good ways to have no interest at first.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If i'm not vibing the way I want to and find my self staring aswell, I like to use the triangle gaze method.
 

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crossboss said:
I show too much interest in girls at first. I stare at them a lot. What are good ways to have no interest at first.
How old are you? When I was younger. Teens and maybe up to 21 I stared a lot at girls. As I got older I just realized that some girls are really pretty but just staring at them is nowhere near as satisfying as screwing them.

If you want to show interest just talk to them, smile, lightly touch them and if you're feeling a good vibe from her then get her number or go somewhere with her.

The problem that I have is that I"m not really able to tell when a girl is interested in me so I don't go all the way through with what I said before.
 
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