“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dayvidaims

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What the hell is wrong with me.. After all the things I know from that site how can I possibly do so stupid things with my girlfriend?

Well i have a gf of 2 months now and I'm really into her. The problem is that in the way I act to her lately I show a lot of insecurity.

Recently I had a problem with my stomach due to stress and I couldn't eat very well for 1 month (Well I facking know it was about her and I hope she doesn't know that too). She lived me through that and I was sometimes pathetic..

Well during all that I lsot about 5 kg and now I look awful as I was already a little thin. Yeserday a friend of her told me just that and then me idiot felt really down and discussed that with my gf (about how awful I feel about being so thin) GROSS!!!

Well she told me (without me asking) that its true I lost many kilos but she likes me just the way I am..

But why do I show so much insecurity in front of her and can't control it?

How can I turn things around for my image>?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Starman

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well duhhhh!! If you think you are showing insecurity..be conscious next time about not being whiny and insecure..

you might even want to save face and say something like "WHooo! Thanks for backing me up when I was sick and acting like a little whiny ass b1tch!"

this will make her think it was your sickness that made u feel insecure..and not you per se

and stop with this "I look awful" crap..you are bringing yourself (and your weight) down!

so u lost a few lbs..big deal..your girl does like u for who you are..slim
 
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dayvidaims

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yeah it might all be just in my head...

but i'll try to never show insecure again as last night..

today we met and everything was o.k...
 
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Your "friend" sounds like a b1tch talking sh1t about you to your gf.
 
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