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[frivolousz21]

I know ive said things that are out of line or wrong...just about none of us would say the trolling stupid things we say on here in real life.

we should repsect each others opinions...if we dont agree just say Hey, I dont agree..this is what I think and discuss.


if a question is posted that is redundent..put read the dj bible..thread closed.

things would go more smoothly around here.

just remember..nothing is set for everyone...everyones situation can be very similiar but all are different. we are here to help each other.


this site helped me go from being nervous to the point of sweating when approaching a lady to talking to any person on earth with self confidence.

I owe it to this place to try to help others attain this...and belittling each other like 10 yr olds playing halo wont do it.

lets show some repspect.

 

[superchristx]

this thread is gay. friv is a communist. you need to be less of a pvssy and more of an alpha.

 

[frivolousz21]

you need to be less of a pvssy and more of an alpha.

ill keep that in mind

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Should people show guanine respect for another person? Yes

Remember though

Respect is Earned NOT Given.

Besides this is an Internet board that has millions of users at any givin time on that you truly don’t know so why showed they praise you and give you respect that you think you owned?

Frankly why do you care considering you don’t know if what they are saying is the truth? For all we know you can be a women or a man. This is the INTERNET were anybody can become anything and say anything they want and people have really no way of knowing if it's the truth. That’s why so many like it. Gives them power.

 

[Morphiex]

its true respect should be earnd , but also u wont recieve respect unless ugive some back either...

and thats the problem , people dont give any repsect to anyone but want to be respected themself....

me , i give anyone i dont know an normal amount of respect and by the action that person makes he looses my repsect or gains some more respect from me....
I dont start flaming someone right off if i feel that what he is saying is wrong....and start calling him a focker and sh\t like that... but if someone flames me i will retaliate be shure of that.....

peace

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Why should I be nice to someone whose posting stupid shiat?

 

[frivolousz21]

Why should I be nice to someone whose posting stupid shiat?

because your over 25 yrs old.....no man should be acting like a child anywhere...regardless if its an internet forum or not.

men dont lash out when being provoked...men take a higher road...I have not always taken the higher road.

men also are supposed to be standup....not making fun of, or lashing at other men..exp when they dont live the way they protray..I know guys in real life who are just as fraudulent as the guys here.

if guys came here and told there real story and honestly tried working on being a better man and getting women...this place could thrive..and guys would get threw more quickly.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Friv you also have to remember that in real life these guys don't have the guts to blow you off to your face...

In real life I've woken up to drunk asses kicking me, people running away with my pants and clothes at a girls place, I've had guns pointed at my face, and knives to my throat, I've had people kill themselves at my house parties, and I've taken people down after they hung down from rafters... I've never demanded respect for any of it! I accept humility, why do you think I can live with the nicky that is Boner?

Men can take a higher road, but there is never a path set out for anybody, just options to take a given path nobody can be forced to give respect, and some people grow up without it and learn to deal with it...

When the gun was pulled in my face I stood my ground, I got ****y with them and made them laugh, so nothing happened to me. There are people who want to whip the ***** out of you, they know that lazy ****s don't deserve anything without hard work, so they beat on the people who grew up with a silver spoon and give to the truly poor. Ever walked an old lady across the road? Ever thought that somebody on the other end of the phone was a cranky puss who deserved a little **** in their mouth to shut them up?

There are thoughts on this planet that do not deserve to be said, but the goal of some out there is to show that there are crazy people, and there are those that are totally scared ****less of life... what has to be done is people have to realize that there is a middle ground, and millions of possibilites in every direction of thought... you can wake up dead tomorrow, some people really live that way, because of free speech, it ****ed up their heads, they live only for today and if they wake up alive, than they were lucky, they plan for nothing!

So when you say that people should give other people respect, you have to realize respect is unilateral, some might think you are being respectful, but if somebody obeyed my every whim I'd think they were being disrespectful because they are not giving me everything they have, and they are disgracing the human race by not seeking more out of life.

 

[frivolousz21]

your post makes sense to me..the first line says it all.

Friv you also have to remember that in real life these guys don't have the guts to blow you off to your face...

that is beyond true..none of them would....if one of the guys who give me ****..had to meet me today..they would be so nervous from talking like this they might wet there pants.


thats what I dont get...why be an E-thug.

does calling me a fag, afc, pyssy, woman make you cool or feel good? if it does then you need help...does it accoplish anything other then showing you get satisfaction out of loooking cool or ALPHA on a internet site message forum???

im only here because I know I can help....I know, maybe by myself this place could change if I tried hard enuf. Eventually the fakers and liars will leave or come clean and start acting like there true selfs.

you see I do that....the best I can thew these boxes filled with words. since I dont protray a fraudulent persona...its easy to shoot me down.

someone told me Ive outgrown this place..which I have....I dont need to read another article..I havent read anything since jan or feb. because Im confident..and this confidence has given me the power to know I control my life and so far since ive found this mindset...I have controlled my life as I see fit.

my job here is to help others find this feeling of power....its painfully obvious so many of these attackers are really crying out for help..once they put the guard down and try...it will change for them.


to sum it up..the hardest thing is THEY DONT KNOW WHAT A DJ IS:

when I got here I didnt either...when I realized what is truely is..thats when I discovered..a DJ is when you truely take control of yourself

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
we should repsect each others opinions...if we dont agree just say Hey, I dont agree..this is what I think and discuss.

I was reading some of the old stuff and this is exactly what i saw. I may ride your azz from time to time (just because i can, and it's fun) but i do agree with you here....

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Re: Re: Show repsect

Originally posted by spider_007
just because i can, and it's fun

That is where I try to get to, if it bothers you so much friv, than you have to get tougher...

 

[frivolousz21]

That is where I try to get to, if it bothers you so much friv, than you have to get tougher...

its not that it bothers me on a personal level..it bothers me because He or they wouldnt say it to my face.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Well that's not why they do it, You probably don't admit your problems the same way in real life as you do on the boards... in life you don't want to appear patheitc, so you mask the problem with words and fancy tricks you learned as a child... you don;t get down to the bare bones which is the truth...

people ride you on here because you sound like you are a pushover, if they could actually SEE that HEAR that and FEEL that in real life than they WOULD say this stuff to you, and so would others... so that is what they are trying to get out of you on these boards...

let me tell you, I am far more calm on these boards than I am at times in real life, and visa versa, I have more emotions here, because in life there are problems that arise when the wrong emtions are shown... on MSN I can woo a girl with words, in life it is actions...

you have to learn the difference of what people are saying about you...

Just think, there are many afc, puzzy, punk, poser posters out on these boards that don't get flamed as much as you do... BUT you have to know that there are people that are people who ACT like you speak in real life, and they get their egos crushed every damned day... Not until you start giving people a positive mental picture will they start to see what you are trying to portray, if you come off as a hard ass, people will see a hard ass, if you come off as a retard, they will see retard... start emulating what you want to become, fake it till you make it, there are hundreds of sayings. You have to find your niche that makes you feel comfortable.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Not until you start giving people a positive mental picture will they start to see what you are trying to portray, if you come off as a hard ass, people will see a hard ass, if you come off as a retard, they will see retard... start emulating what you want to become,

said "Boner da Stoner":crackup: :crackup:

Originally posted by frivolousz21
....it bothers me because He or they wouldnt say it to my face.

I woldn't go that far. I've said things to people that made me wonder haw i got out alive.

I do have to agree, you make your self an easy mark.

 

[frivolousz21]

I do have to agree, you make your self an easy mark.

thats the point..we are here to discuss our thoughts and issues.....this isnt real life...this where u can come to let it loose..to learn and grow.

we arent here to look hard ass

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
this isnt real life...this where u can come to let it loose.

we arent here to look hard ass

That is where your problem lies. You are being hard ass in letting your emotions control you.

From what you 'complain' about to what you want, how can you tell other people not to be hard asses, while you yourself are not being a hard ass? It takes one to know one, and you are obviously not one, so why try to tell them to 'smarten up' when they are being smart in a sense already?

 

[superchristx]

For the record, I would most definitely blow you off to your face if you rolled into a public situation and said "okay you NEED to start treating people with more respect. Act like a man." I might even spit on you.


Also for the record, I was joking in the first post (even thought I didn't use a ) acting like a disrespectful fool to reinforce what you were saying. But you took it seriously, thereby LOSING my respect, stupid.

 

[thefonz]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
thats the point..we are here to discuss our thoughts and issues.....this isnt real life...this where u can come to let it loose..to learn and grow.

we arent here to look hard ass

This is my truth aswell

 

[frivolousz21]

For the record, I would most definitely blow you off to your face if you rolled into a public situation and said "okay you NEED to start treating people with more respect. Act like a man." I might even spit on you.

this isnt real life..people come here to share there insecurities....playing fake DJ hard ass does no good....

therefor why on Earth would I walk up to you in real life and tell you to treat people with respect?