“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Show of hands - Who's a MAN?

CableLight

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Highschool - Often a transition point for many young boys to become young men. So, who here thinks they're a man now? Lets take a show of hands - AND - this will be a good way for us to tell some of our "best" stories.

Basically - Give us one good reason why you think you're a man. Something BIG you've done in your life that's truely made a big enough impact on you to think to yourself "Wow, I'm not a kid anymore." I'm talking about something a little more than the standard "Sex with Girl = Manhood" thing, because I know a few people who've been bonin since they were 14 but are some of the most immature dorks around. I'm talking about something that may have changed your life as a whole!

I suppose its only fair that I kick this off - Here's a little story not many people no about me. It was my turn to be the DD one night, and I was just about to give some buddies of mine a ride home because they were way too trashed to safely make the trip themselves. We were driving along, and being the dumb high school kids we were (at the time I was still in HS), some of my friends decided to keep drinking in the car.

We had open containers up the ass in my ride. As lady luck would have it, I managed to go about 5 MPH over the speed limit as we passed a cop, and in my town, 5 miles over is a deadly sin.

It takes the cop maybe a minute to whip around, turn on his lights, and be caught up to me. Needless to say, I was the only sober one in the car but I had about 4 VISUALLY drunk friends who would probably end up getting underages. I made the one move I never thought I would in this situation - I grabbed a half-empty beer from the guy sitting shotgun to me while everyone else hid their booze. I polished the rest of the beer off and put the can in my cup holder so it was in plain sight. The cop pulls us over, sees the can and I'm assuming could smell the fresh Coors Light on my breath so he tells me to get out of the car.

He gives me a sobriety test, which I ace because I wasn't drunk. Then he asks me to take a breathalizer, which I comply with and blow something like a .001 (that or .01, I forget). Anyway - I was below the legal limit and eventhough I was underage, it wasnt high enough to charge me with drinking (household cough syrup registers at .002 or so). He gives me a warning for the empty beer can and drives off; he didnt even check on my friends in the car.

The reason I chose this story was because, In my opinion, being a man means making decisions to do the right thing. I didnt want all my buddies to end up getting underages because I was the guy speeding. I took one for the team, and would do it again in a heartbeat.
 

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Well this is kinda different but the same jist.

Simply to put it, all my friends in highschool are losers, not losers but druggies and slackers who don't do **** in school and they were dragging me down with them in a hurry. I snapped out of this daze just in time, I took all the hardest courses in HS and worked my ass off for a good mark and it has finally paid off, I was accepted to 3 universites of which i applied to.

I couldn't be happier, I deserve this and am the only one out of my friends who is going to university.
 

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^ Thats awesome, bud. You're friends will probably regret not working more in school in the near and distant future :)

C'mon guys, lets get some more :eek:
 

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It's nice to see people looking out for their mates, friendship like that is hard to find CableLight. I will give two experiences.

Experience one

Well this was more or less the main turning point for me, it was more of a gradual thing but at the end of yr 9 i was still the fat nerd guy that noone really liked. I hated how i always got teased and i hated being like i was. Instead of doing something about it i just kept trying to get other people to solve my problems, like my parents or teachers.

Then when the 10 week holiday came i embraced my responsibility and took everything on in to my own two hands. I threw out my computer which was really difficult and started working out and getting in to shape, i was being friendly to strangers and would run up a hill near my house and enjoy the view every day for roughly an hour. It was an awesome holiday. I came back in year 10 and everyone was amazed, everyone embraced me but i never forgot the ones who really gave me ****. Today, i have those ****ers trying to lick my balls and grab a piece of what i am now. At least this turn around showed me who my real friends are not just the guys who wanted to be my friend after i changed.

Experience 2

Me and my mate were pissed and thought it was a good idea to go riding around on a motor bike (dont lecture me how stupid it is, im aware of it). I was on the back of the bike and my mate was drivin, we were speedin around all over the place and a police car appeared and started chasing us, at this stage my mate decided to try and get away and started speeding. The cops were pretty far behind but what my friend didnt see was a wall 1 foot high. We hit it at 60km/h and arms and legs went everywhere, my friends leg was ****ed and so was my face/chest after sliding on the concrete. We both managed to get away after a scuffle with the police but my mate got caught from the rego on the bike.

He got fined $1500 and cant get his license for a long time. I payed 50% of the fines and repairs to the bike which was alot of money to me considering my financial position (im not exactly well off, and my parents didnt pay a single penny), that was alot of work for me and giving all that up for a mate was a big step for me.
 

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Well to be a man I had to prove myself that I was one. I cam to point in my late teenages years that I could not take it anymore aka depresion. Somthing inside me told me to ride a mountbake all the way to wellington, my countries capital. My homecity being auckland and my plan was to go down to welly all the way without food, money and water. Juts the essential needs- clothes, bicycle pump, ID cards thats all. As I was riding all te way down south I had no idea to get there. So I asked around, asking random people ad also petrol stations. This was done at night time when everyone was out partying, while I was on my bike searching for my self. I followed these dark foots steps which were out of control, some had gravel etc. paths going up and down, left to right you know it. It was pretty random. I looked up to the sky and the only thing that guided me was a moon. With the help of the moon and people giving me directions I came to a point were I knew were I was going and the this exercise of riding to the bike may kill me. I came to the point in my journey, where a yellow box, within it inscribed FH or fire hydron. I sat down and looked at the bush with had the face of buddha him self. He says to me "you know what to do now, go back to your house' in a thunderous voice. So I followed his advice because my true calling or ambiton was found which was to join the army and become a medic. On my way home the winding paths disapeared. Only a straight road which was lit up so I can see clearly. I kept following to this road, made me calm and my despair was gone cos now I have ambition, before that bike ride I had no ambiton at all I was not authentically confident. But now I am even more confident because of that 40km bike ride that I did which took 6hours to do.

Our ancestors did this to, to prove there manliness to the village their cam to a point in a boys life that he has grown up. He relisis this and sets off to the environment and carries with him the basic esential needs like clothes, hunting gear etc. He is out there in the wilderness for 30-40 days. If he comes back he is respected and have proved himself that he is a man. If he died, his teachings was of no use. Now I believe I am a true man because of this exercise.
 

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My story is more of a triumph than anything. I had an operation that went bad back in 1995 that caused me to go on home bound from 4th grade to 9th grade. The doctors said I probably would never be able to go back because I had a feeding tube in my stomach.

I was da**ned well determined not to let this overcome me. Which I didn't. After working my butt off I finally was able to return to school after my freshmen year and Ive been in school ever since. I will hopefully be graduating this spring.

So as you can see for me, being a man is looking at something impossible to do. Its overcoming the odds. It's looking whatever limitation you have right in the face and saying, "I will over come you."
 

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I believe mine is just being friendly to everyone around me.

Whether you're the biggest dork in the world or the most popular girl in school, I am always friendly to everyone and everyone knows that I'm someone that they can always talk to. Don't get me wrong, I'm no AFC who puts up with BS from people.

I could just chill with the popular people all the time and forget about the other people that are nice to me. But I'm different, and everyone respects me for that.
 

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^

I wish more people did that...A lot of people at my old high school were really "cliquey" in that they only talked to / hung around certain people. There was seriously no inter-group relationships period. :(
 

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Originally posted by CableLight
^

I wish more people did that...A lot of people at my old high school were really "cliquey" in that they only talked to / hung around certain people. There was seriously no inter-group relationships period. :(
Indeed.

It's sad.

It's funny. I could be talking to a popular chick on minute and then she'll see me walking and laughing with some dork after the next period. It doesn't matter though, everyone respects that that's who I am.

I'm secure enough to know that people who are really my friends won't care who I hang out with (unless they're criminals LOL).
 

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Originally posted by downfallofdisbelief
pshh, i bought condoms once, doesn't that count???
That depends, what did ya use em for?
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
That depends, what did ya use em for?
lol.

You know Cable, I sit here and ponder about your question. I remember many times where I made a mental note that this is something I did that was great. Many times. Things that I would consider for this question. But then... I can't really remember them. Proves that they don't count.

There is one thing I did. I remember it was recent and scarred me hard. Worthy of "being a man" but I have yet to remember the whole event.

I will be back!
 

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Well... I've recently realized ever since high school started, everything has been a massive struggle.

I went from this freshman year: www.angelfire.com/rock3/gto/ME8.jpg

to who I am today: www.angelfire.com/rock3/gto/save_the_world.JPG

I did it by myself. I ran by myself, I did football without any support from my parents. I walk 8 miles to my school and back when I don't have a ride, I get 4 hours of sleep and am sick at the same, and I still stick to my commitment of never missing a football practice. I've broken limbs, severed fingernails, sweated, bled from every hole in my body to get where I am today, especially difficult when I was so reliant on my mom, who never did anything for me.

I make sure I find the right people, talk to the right people, say the right things. In essence, I've turned into a self dependent, confident man who prides himself on his hard work and commitment to fulfill promises.
 
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