Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No kidding. When some guys and on other sites post examples of some singles ads that women put up, and like 80% of the time they list their interests which include:Alexandar said:
lmao :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:GS750 said:
Not for nothing but that profile looks fake as fcvk. The lighting, everything. I'd be willing to bet some dude lifted that chicks profile off one of those "hot teen" websites and those pictures were taken by a professional for a "modelling" gig with her holding the phone pretending to take pictures of herself.dk1990S111 said:
If you're past the 14 year age POF rule with your own age being 14 years older than her posted age of 19 you won't be able to message her. I don't see any restrictions on the bottom of who can message her so it's most likely the automatic 14 year difference age rule that POF's owner decided to implement on whom HE feels should be entitled to even contact others who are adults themselves.Alexandar said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
