"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OK, first of all I am not that much experienced as a DJ but this piece of info is something I have observed many times so there might be some truth to it ;)

I realized that the woman might be attracted to you at some level but only when you show here you are a real MAN e.g by calling her on her BS, standing up for yourself or simply telling her to shut the **** up and stop being a ***** the real game begins and she actually respects you more ;)

I am sure most of you can relate. I guess this is similar to when you try to kiss her and she doesn't respond - still, she'll know you got the balls to do it.

Show here you ain't ***** boy
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This is the fundamental aspect of seduction. I especially agree on the 'call her on her bs' part. But being a man also entails more than just standing up for yourself. It means having direction in life, being ambitious, having goals, and actively moving towards them. It gives you natural confidence. It's also simpler than memorizing patterns and routines. Nice post :).
 

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What does that even mean? "Calling her out on her BS"? And how would u do that?
 

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Originally posted by bud_2005
What does that even mean? "Calling her out on her BS"? And how would u do that?
Well, she tells you some lame excuse or starts behaving immature just to see if you can handle that.

This one particular girl was showing me some pics of her and her friends. There was this good looking guy so I tell her he's hot ;) (just teasing her) and she asks "What about me!?! What about me!?!" so I go like "Hey baby, if you need to get an ego boost please, find someone else and don't waste my time"

(AFC would tell her how beautiful she is)

Now, the little princess gets really mad and says she won't talk to me, lol. I say, OK bye. She comes back (who would have thought that, lol) and says "You're bad, I hate you" :D So we talk more about photos and how people look different on pictures compared to the real life and I suggest we agree that she's HB7 on that photo and she could be happy that she's not blond because then she would be only HB6 on my scale ;)

Her : But I don't want to be only 7, I want to be 8!

Me : That's your problem, baby.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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