Shouldn't She Enjoy Sucking It?

[Mctwist4]

I mean really. My gf does it, but I want her to enjoy it. Is it something I'm doing wrong. Lack of interest(We've been dating 7 months though)? Don't say foreplay because that's definitly not it. I don't understand. I put so much effort into getting her off and it seems like she just does it for me because she has to.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Perhaps she had a bad experience before? Maybe some guy forced her or she choked and some loser wouldn't let her up for a gulp of air?

In any case, you can't force it. She has two other perfectly good holes to abuse right?

 

[WaterTiger]

Just be glad she does it!

Most women dislike giving them because:
a-They guy isn't clean and tidy down there.
b-They've had bad experiences with it in the past.
c-She's afraid you'll spew in her mouth without warning her.
d-She thinks it's humiliating and demeaning to women.(Fem-nazi idea)
e-She thinks only prostitutes and "slutty girls" do it.
f-Let's face it guys...you pee out of that thing, it's a general gross out.

Try talking to her about it! Maybe there is something you can do to make her more comfortable with it.

 

[Mctwist4]

Well, I'm her first for anything dealing with the genitals, so the bad experience thing is not the case. I always warn her before I *** so that isn't it. I'm pretty clean down there so that's not it either. What irritates me is that I enjoy giving her pleasure and she does it because that's what she has to do :yes:. I guess it could be worse though...

 

[Mctwist4]

Just be glad she does it!

Most women dislike giving them because:
a-They guy isn't clean and tidy down there.
b-They've had bad experiences with it in the past.
c-She's afraid you'll spew in her mouth without warning her.
d-She thinks it's humiliating and demeaning to women.(Fem-nazi idea)
e-She thinks only prostitutes and "slutty girls" do it.
f-Let's face it guys...you pee out of that thing, it's a general gross out.

Try talking to her about it! Maybe there is something you can do to make her more comfortable with it.

Comeon though, I eat her out without a second thought.

 

[Byezbozhniy]

If you're her first, maybe she's worried that she's doing it wrong.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Comeon though, I eat her out without a second thought.

But what if she had a d1ck? :crackup:

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

But what if she had a d1ck? :crackup:

As Adam Corolla used to say, it's much better to suck on a hot dog than burry your face in a can of sardines.

I've never sucked d^ck but I'd imagine it's not at all bad as long as it's clean. Of course I'd puke at the thought of a mouth full of come.


Am I the only one here that prefers intercourse to oral sex?

 

[( . )( . )]

Just be glad she does it!

Bad attitude to have, a loser accepts a chick thinking of it as a chore, a man expects her to be over the moon his magic wand is in her gob.

Most women dislike giving them because....

Most women dislike sucking d!ck?

Your theory is flawed. I got a hunch that most chicks would not only LOVE to suck Brad Pitt or whichever dude is the latest social pinnacle with a smile on their face and torrent between their legs.

Now obviously this dude isnt Brad Pitt but he should be the next best thing in her mind.

a-They guy isn't clean and tidy down there.
b-They've had bad experiences with it in the past.
c-She's afraid you'll spew in her mouth without warning her.
d-She thinks it's humiliating and demeaning to women.(Fem-nazi idea)
e-She thinks only prostitutes and "slutty girls" do it.
f-Let's face it guys...you pee out of that thing, it's a general gross out.

Logical thinking? sure sounds like it I agree, but the reasons are irrelevant you understand? The fact logic trumped her emotions is equal to or lesser than sh!t. You get a pass because your on the net.

Try talking to her about it! Maybe there is something you can do to make her more comfortable with it.

I can almost hear the final nail being driven into the coffin.

To the original dude, look mate the ship has already sailed with this, closest no frills thing you could probably try is actually getting a chick who wants to suck your d!ck to suck it and having your current chick suspect it....Why you would even want to and just not next her would be baffling but you get what I'm saying.

Life is too short to be unhappy with crap sex, and you should be above and beyond the lamestream AFC remedy of "solving" this problem. (rolling over and taking it up the a$$).

 

[Bible_Belt]

Welcome back, Tits!

 

[Jay Jay]

Tips

Get David Shades Masterful Lover.

People like doing what they are good at and hate doing things they don't feel confident with. So:

Let her know how good SHE is at it.

Give her tips (yeah girls love directions in bed). Be positive. Say "it feels great when you..." Do NOT say "don't do that!"

Moan, groan and talk sexy. Flex all your muscles as if the pleasure is so great you have lost control of your bodily functions.

Don't stick your **** in her face when you want it. More try to verbally arouse her by telling her how good it makes you feel and how sexy it is. I tend to tell girls how beautiful it is to see her doing that because it shows both how sexual she is and how caring and considerate it is...

Don't put your hand at the back of her head like the porn stars do. (Some chicks like it but) most HATE IT!

Play with her hair instead.

If you suspect your girl likes the caveman approach of "Suck it *****!" Build up real slow. You gotta be REAL intuitive on this!

Eat well and drink a lot of water. Pinapple juice a few hours before is a killer (make your *** taste nice... apparantly...).

Always shower just before and put on a fresh pair of undies.

Give more than you recieve. I've noticed that more a girl likes it done to her the more she does it.

Never try pressure her to get her to do it, nor should you whine.

And NEVER EVER say "thank you." I know we all appreciate it but for some reason girls take it the wrong way, as if you think they have perfomed a service for you. "**** that was amazing!" should do as a thanks.

JJ

 

[Mctwist4]

I liked what Tits and Jayjay said. I have a question for tits though: Do you think it is a lack of interest, or maybe she doesn't find me manly or sexy enough? Because like you said, most girls would love to suck brad pitt off, so I come to the conclusion that she doesn't think highly enough of me or her interest is too low...Correct?

 

[realsmoothie]

my experience is that a lot of girls are scared to do it because they don't know HOW. Or they don't THINK they know how.

I've had this conversation with a few girl friends (not dating them) and they've said that even jerking a guy off can be difficult. They're scared of hurting you (good call... guys are always freaking out about their gonads) and want to be "sexy" but don't know how to compete with all the porn stars out there.

The last girl I was with was 20 and didn't have much experience. I had to teach her, basically.... which worked out great because it opened up the whole experience. She admitted at that point to being a lot more nervous than she appeared, and giggled a bit which really released a lot of the tension.

We live in a society where there's a lot more LOOKING at sex than actually doing it. We all feel as if we have to be up to these standards (which are crap... porn sex is a joke) and feel awkward and/or nervous when we can't. Giving head is a highly intimate act, maybe moreso than intercourse itself. It shouldn't be treated lightly.

 

[Mctwist4]

my experience is that a lot of girls are scared to do it because they don't know HOW. Or they don't THINK they know how.

I've had this conversation with a few girl friends (not dating them) and they've said that even jerking a guy off can be difficult. They're scared of hurting you (good call... guys are always freaking out about their gonads) and want to be "sexy" but don't know how to compete with all the porn stars out there.

The last girl I was with was 20 and didn't have much experience. I had to teach her, basically.... which worked out great because it opened up the whole experience. She admitted at that point to being a lot more nervous than she appeared, and giggled a bit which really released a lot of the tension.

We live in a society where there's a lot more LOOKING at sex than actually doing it. We all feel as if we have to be up to these standards (which are crap... porn sex is a joke) and feel awkward and/or nervous when we can't. Giving head is a highly intimate act, maybe moreso than intercourse itself. It shouldn't be treated lightly.

Good point, I'll give her more encouragement next time, and tell her shes doing a good job .

 

[( . )( . )]

so I come to the conclusion that she doesn't think highly enough of me or her interest is too low...Correct?

Yes either or.

Honestly ask yourself would she be disinterested and unenthusiastic with a guy who she perceived as hard to obtain and a prize to other chicks?

Society loves to tell everyone to "talk" to her about it, dont believe the hype. Its the dangling carrot Rollo Tomassi talked about. The real question is why the fvck should we be so desperate with ONE chick that we even should have the need to "talk" about how we really need her to up her sex game.

I tell you this for free, if I was a chick and my borefriend approached me and wanted to talk about how much he wants MY oral improvement I would think "Owned...another one in my back pocket." Why in the hell would I even want to improve if this chump is too sackless to go after what he wants? skampering over like a dog with its tail between its legs, ready to submit by "talking". Fvck that noise.




Gday B_Belt.

 

[Mctwist4]

Yes either or.

Honestly ask yourself would she be disinterested and unenthusiastic with a guy who she perceived as hard to obtain and a prize to other chicks?

Society loves to tell everyone to "talk" to her about it, dont believe the hype. Its the dangling carrot Rollo Tomassi talked about. The real question is why the fvck should we be so desperate with ONE chick that we even should have the need to "talk" about how we really need her to up her sex game.

I tell you this for free, if I was a chick and my borefriend approached me and wanted to talk about how much he wants MY oral improvement I would think "Owned...another one in my back pocket." Why in the hell would I even want to improve if this chump is too sackless to go after what he wants? skampering over like a dog with its tail between its legs, ready to submit by "talking". Fvck that noise.




Gday B_Belt.

You're the man. And you're ****in right.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

( . )( . ), nailed it.

This has been said many times before about fukking, but the same is true for oral:

A woman is going to fukk (well, suck). She may not suck you, she may not suck me, but she's gonna suck somebody. You just have to be the guy she wants to suck.

A woman with a high enough IL will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your 2nd story window, take it in the ass, suck you clean and hide in the closet when your wife comes home unexpectedly. If a woman wants to fukk (suck) you she'll find a way to do it.

 

[speed dawg]

Did she suck it back when you first started going out, when all the "high" emotions were running and you were fukking like rabbits and couldn't get enough of each other?

The reason I ask is, I had a gf who lost interest over the span of about 4 months. I came on here crying about why she didn't suck my c0ck and the general reason was, low interest level, which turned out to be true. But, during the first month, when the interest level was there, she STILL didn't SUCK me off, but I violated every other crevice she had any way I wanted. We never talked about sex, just let it happen. So, to me, it was like she didn't like oral sex to begin with.

Who knows, just something to ponder.

 

[djbr]

( . )( . ), nailed it.

This has been said many times before about fukking, but the same is true for oral:

A woman is going to fukk (well, suck). She may not suck you, she may not suck me, but she's gonna suck somebody. You just have to be the guy she wants to suck.

A woman with a high enough IL will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your 2nd story window, take it in the ass, suck you clean and hide in the closet when your wife comes home unexpectedly. If a woman wants to fukk (suck) you she'll find a way to do it.

Sometimes she will suck even if she doesn't have a so-high IL in you. Those are the so-called slvts. LOL!

Learn the word NEXT.

PS.: Amen to Tits.

 

[Aaron B]

Just be glad she does it!

Most women dislike giving them because:

"Just be glad she does it?" Surely you jest.

Every man on here should EXPECT oral sex from a female.

Like a wise man once said to me "She don't s*ck, I don't f*ck."

I don't believe there are many women who won't give oral sex. The only remaining question is: will she give it to YOU?

I don't believe most women dislike bj's, and I would never be with a woman who wouldn't give me one.

I consider the quality of the oral sex she gives me to be a big indicator of interest level.

I do understand younger, less experienced girls may be hesitant initially to go down on you. This doesn't mean they don't want to, only that they are nervous about doing it right. Insist on her performing oral sex, and the chances of her doing it are very high.