"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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daman01

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Man, every part of my body is seeing good progress except my shoulders. My shoulders just don't seem to grow that well. I dunno maybee my shoulder workout isn't right. Here it is:
db or bb shoulder press 4x8
side lat raises 4x8
rear lat raises 4x8

I try to go real slow on the lat raises and hold it for 2 seconds at the top of the motion.
Is there something different I could do to make my shoulders grow more?
Cause I really want to have big shoulders.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wheelin&dealin

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To hit the posterior delts, do bent over rows with your upper arms 90 degrees to your body. Bent over rows with your upper arms close to your body gives you more of a lat workout.
 

Army_of_One

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daman,

I have a lot of success on delts by pre-exhausting them with Lateral Raises and Front Raises before I start my shoulder presses. I'm not sure about you but when I do delts I always go heavy, especially on shoulder presses. If I do shoulder presses first I end up fatiuging my triceps as well and that makes the lateral raises and front raises harder to do with proper form which hurts in the end.

I don't really like rear lateral raises. I do them from time to time but my posterior delts get hit well enough by doing upright rows, bent over rows, and lying side raises.

Good Luck getting those delts like Softballs
 

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I have had good success with this workout:

Shoulder Press (3X8)
Arnold Press (3X8)
Bent over row (3X10)
Up-right row (3X10)
Compound - Side Lateral raises(10 reps) + front shoulder raises (10reps) Total- (2x20)
Back lateral raises (2X10)

I have a day dedicated to shoulders only...since the workout is somewhat intense...

-DJLiquid
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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