"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should you shake a woman's hand when you meet her?

Hooligan Harry

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Its threads like this that enough to drive people away from this community. How can something so normal be discussed in length like this? Its a handshake, not a proposal for marriage.

Where exactly have you guys got your social skills from? When you are introduced to someone you greet them and shake their hands. End of story. Its basic manners. Like not farting at the dinner table or picking your nose in public. Its not the start of a seduction campaign. Its a simple acknowledgement.

You guys analyze this **** way to much. There is nothing technical about this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SharinganUser

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I always shake a woman's hand. Nothing shows a woman dominance, like sending her to the hospital for ex rays because she fell victim to your vice grip handshake.
 
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