"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should you REALLY trust a woman?

Masculinity

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I've seen most of it, vvhores, slvts, skaanks, cheaters, girls who cheated on their boyfriends with me, girls who have sex in exchange of car rides(lol) and what not, I have been cheated on, I'v enever cheated, feel like crap, cause I felt I had to be loyal and then find out my ex gf wasn't loyal to me.

So think about should you trust women?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alle_Gory

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I trust trustworthy women, and trustworthy men too.

To be fair most 'men' or should I say chumps behave exactly like you say.
 

KontrollerX

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"So think about should you trust women?"

Go read Interceptor, jophil28, TheHumanist and Penkitten posts.

If you ever find a woman out there with the degree of integrity and strong belief in morals as those four people then that woman is a good candidate to risk trusting.

These four people also believe in the concept of reciprocity which in other words means what goes around comes around, you get what you give etc and for those of a spiritual sense this is known as karma.

So anyway thats the answer to your question.

If you ever meet a woman with those qualities she's a good bet for taking the big risk and trusting her.

Though it should be noted that finding such a woman in today's fvcked up culture and society is like locating the proverbial needle in a haystack or winning the lottery so yeah in a general sense in today's world you should never trust a woman or anyone for that matter.

At least until you've known them for a very long time and they've proven their credibility and legitimacy to you in some very important ways.
 

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Well said, KontrollerX. I wasn't going to touch this topic, being a very loyal and trustworthy woman. I have seen many women play suitable, if not desirable guys... for their own lack of esteem, I presume.

Trust your gut and keep your eyes peeled for signs that she may or may not be worth trusting. Does she keep her word? Does she act in a self-respecting manner? It is my belief that a woman who respects herself will have respect for others.

This is a broad, vague area to be in, as you must make the call on a woman-by-woman basis.

Trust is an earned privilege, not to be just handed out to anyone. People with truly good intentions will eventually become apparent to you.
 
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Robyn923b said:
I've seen most of it, vvhores, slvts, skaanks, cheaters, girls who cheated on their boyfriends with me, girls who have sex in exchange of car rides(lol) and what not, I have been cheated on, I'v enever cheated, feel like crap, cause I felt I had to be loyal and then find out my ex gf wasn't loyal to me.

So think about should you trust women?
Some women are worth your trust, some none at all. Get to know her a bit you can often tell by the way she treats people in general.

Common signs she aint no good trust material: women who once cheated on exes, women who lie easyily (to you, friends), women who make lame excuses easily, women that tell you they lied to exes, women who have no respect for their friends, women that easily make compliments they don't mean, fake shy women, women who are too easy and don't ask questions about you, drama queens, women that have borderline, women that are too obsessed about sex in general, women that use any psychiatrist condition as an excuse to cheat or lie, women that keep talking about the 'great' ex, women who just came out of a 'complicated relationship' and want to rush in a new one, very materialistic women, women too fond of you paying all, begging for presents women & very manipulative women in general.

Good signs: honest & treats friends well, has morals in general, dumps her guy before she goes with you, is scared about beeing used, romantic, dreams about meeting her 'one guy', not arrogant even when hot, picky about guys, b1tchy but not manipulative and softer inside (= scared to be hurt), worries about you beeing a player. Women that beg to pay half of the bill because they don't wants to use you. Women that lack any 'use' signs. AND none of the above bad signs.

When you take sh1t easily, you get more untrustworthy women.

I found that women who respond highly to this DJing way are less often worth trust than women I have met before 'the normal way'. When you are out for 'use' you get back more 'users'.

Sex = fun, be picky about who you trust.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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