Should you pursue girls while you can?

[The Mad Ghost]

Simple question?

Should the average guy pursue girls, ie, approach them. This is regarding NO approach invitations? And generally cold-approaching?

yes or no.

 

[vatoloco]

Should you try to be a social person who smiles, has some friendly chit-chat with people, including women and is an overall amicable person?

Yes.



Edit: Shit. Hit limit. Will respond here:

Just fvcking with you man! It generally isn't my style. I need to have some sort of IOI to approach someone with the intent of qualifying her. What I do do, though, is talk to many people w/o any... err.. ulterior motives. Men and women both. Even girls who I'm not attracted to.

Yes, I know. Shocking.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

Should you try to be a social person who smiles, has some friendly chit-chat with people, including women and is an overall amicable person?

Yes.

I thought my question was straight forward.

 

[john_trenor]

There is no downside of being average looking as a matter of fact average looking guys are more emotionally approachable to women, and women feel more comfortable when talking to one. Average men should take this asset and utilize it to there fullest potential.

Should you approach women? I would say that since you are average looking and approachable it’s your responsibility my man. No with all seriousness, the gap between average looking and great looking men when it comes to attracting women is paper-thin. If you can tare a contract, you can just as easily be attractive to women.

So how do you work this magic trick? Well it’s really not magic and there are no tricks involved. What you have to work with is being engaging in a conversation. Since women can respond more openly to average men, like wise does the chance for a great conversation rise. Use this toward yore advantage. There’s a lot more when it comes to engaging women and looks have little to do with believe or not. The link below will help you in figuring out how it all works. Good Luck.

 

[Lexington]

Approaches are what allow the average looking guy to score as much tail as the really good looking guy that all the girls blush over. Sure, he might have it a lot easier than you, but you can simply outwork him by doing more approaches. So while he might have a 60% chance of scoring with all these broads and you only have a 30% chance (completely hypothetical), if you do more approaches you can end up scoring just as much high quality tail as him. It's simple probability. Nothing fancy about it.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

if you do more approaches you can end up scoring just as much high quality tail

Okay man.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

How the hell did you clowns turn this into a looks-matter thread already? Unbelievable. OP, ignore all the garbage people are saying about being average-looking or not being average-looking. They're just your typical diehard TMZ followers who are trying to entertain themselves until Access Hollywood or Entertainment Tonight comes on again by trying to infect you with their own self-limiting beliefs.

Simply disregard. In response to your question, why not? IOI's are unreliable at best and is the seduction equivalent of using a psychic to predict the future, i.e. junk science.

 

[actionjaxson]

you have nothing to lose. whats the worst that can happen? she either ignores you or says no. who gives a ****.

 

[Tesl]

Simple question?

Should the average guy pursue girls, ie, approach them. This is regarding NO approach invitations? And generally cold-approaching?

yes or no.

Yes you probably should, though you are less likely to succeed than if she'd displayed interest first. Whats the worst that can happen? You get rejected? so?

 

[Just a Shot Away]

you have nothing to lose. whats the worst that can happen? she either ignores you or says no. who gives a ****.

Or her boyfriend standing 5 feet away hears you and you get into a fistfight over some dumb beezy in the middle of Starbucks. Just sayin.