"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should you like a chicks photo on facebook?

Boilermaker

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Post as much as you want I don't care.

Just take your "post graduate school" (whatever that is) views to the Main Forum.

Or lie about your age.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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timmylivingalie

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Warrior74 said:
Facebook is for finding people that you later want to find on linkedin. At least that's how I use it. That and for finding local events. I try not to read the feed. Of course I recently deleted my facebook and started a new one aimed only at business contacts. When I meet someone new on there, I find them and friend them on linkedIn. I post my articles and sales on both. It's a tool. Use it as such.

As for liking things. I like things on facebook. Especially business related. I have a couple of female singers and wanna be models that I am doing design work for and I'll like their photos because I know it gives them a little ego boost and it reminds them that I'm there. I do it from a network perspective. I don't have any friends or potential dating partners on my facebook.

A better question would be, what do you use facebook for?
My theory is if You like chick A photo it could make chick B jealous.
 
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