Long article about paying for sex.
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The Dark Side of Prostitution
- Real girls may become harder. Just like cocaine addicts may quit investing in social relationships because cocaine activates those same social pleasure centers of the brain (and does so easier and more powerfully), most men who get too far into mongering give up sleeping with girls who don’t sell ***** for coin. They’ll complain about real girls making it too hard, being too flighty, overvaluing themselves, etc. But what’s really happening is they’ve given up their edge... if they ever had it. And now they auto-reject girls who don’t respond to their new style of ‘game’ (i.e., “I’ll give you 300 dollars if you’ll go to bed with me”)
- If you weren’t good before, you can be trapped. Sort of like learning to play a video game with cheat codes. Even if you want to play it without, it’s just too hard and too annoying to bother with once you know you can just type in the cheat code and go back to unlimited power again. I’ve seen a bunch of guys with no-to-low game who get sucked into ***** mongering, and never learn to get women they don’t pay for. They have sex only with prostitutes, date only prostitutes, and marry prostitutes. Often, their prostitute wives cheat on them and leave them, but it’s okay, because they were seeing other prostitutes while they were with these wives, and then go shag more prostitutes after the divorce.
So Should You Have Sex with Prostitutes?'
= The occasional hooker to break a dry spell or crush a plateau is probably okay. If you haven’t been laid in four months and you are just whiffing with every girl you approach right now, a hooker shag may ‘break the curse’ and get you back in the game. Or if you’ve been approaching redheads for a year and still haven’t gotten one on a date, paying for a round of sex with one might get you in the headspace you need to be in to start doing better with girls like this.
- Hookers on vacation are likely okay. I know men who will buy hookers while on vacation, but pick up normally at home. They don’t seem to suffer any ill effects for this, and their use of prostitutes seems to more or less just be good, clean (dirty?) fun.
- A hard limit is crucial. You probably shouldn’t have sex with prostitutes (that you pay for) more than a few times a year, if your goal is more success with real girls. Just from a psychological perspective, if you’re continually failing to get laid with real-life girls and then going to hookers to buy sex instead, you’re going to start to either a.) view yourself as unattractive to women you don’t pay for, or b.) begin to auto-reject non-working girls... You’ll write off regular girls as “too stuck up” or “too full of themselves.” At that point - the point where either your self-esteem falls off a cliff, or your empathy does - your ability to get women you don’t pay for goes down the toilet.
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Thoughts?
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Should You Have Sex with Prostitutes?
To pay for sex or not? What are the benefits to your game (and life)... And what are the risks? A few years back, on my article about pornography addiction, a reader named John Jones asked about prostitution: “Chase, Great article. I do have a major problem. Every few months I get a prostitute...
www.girlschase.com
The Dark Side of Prostitution
- Real girls may become harder. Just like cocaine addicts may quit investing in social relationships because cocaine activates those same social pleasure centers of the brain (and does so easier and more powerfully), most men who get too far into mongering give up sleeping with girls who don’t sell ***** for coin. They’ll complain about real girls making it too hard, being too flighty, overvaluing themselves, etc. But what’s really happening is they’ve given up their edge... if they ever had it. And now they auto-reject girls who don’t respond to their new style of ‘game’ (i.e., “I’ll give you 300 dollars if you’ll go to bed with me”)
- If you weren’t good before, you can be trapped. Sort of like learning to play a video game with cheat codes. Even if you want to play it without, it’s just too hard and too annoying to bother with once you know you can just type in the cheat code and go back to unlimited power again. I’ve seen a bunch of guys with no-to-low game who get sucked into ***** mongering, and never learn to get women they don’t pay for. They have sex only with prostitutes, date only prostitutes, and marry prostitutes. Often, their prostitute wives cheat on them and leave them, but it’s okay, because they were seeing other prostitutes while they were with these wives, and then go shag more prostitutes after the divorce.
So Should You Have Sex with Prostitutes?'
= The occasional hooker to break a dry spell or crush a plateau is probably okay. If you haven’t been laid in four months and you are just whiffing with every girl you approach right now, a hooker shag may ‘break the curse’ and get you back in the game. Or if you’ve been approaching redheads for a year and still haven’t gotten one on a date, paying for a round of sex with one might get you in the headspace you need to be in to start doing better with girls like this.
- Hookers on vacation are likely okay. I know men who will buy hookers while on vacation, but pick up normally at home. They don’t seem to suffer any ill effects for this, and their use of prostitutes seems to more or less just be good, clean (dirty?) fun.
- A hard limit is crucial. You probably shouldn’t have sex with prostitutes (that you pay for) more than a few times a year, if your goal is more success with real girls. Just from a psychological perspective, if you’re continually failing to get laid with real-life girls and then going to hookers to buy sex instead, you’re going to start to either a.) view yourself as unattractive to women you don’t pay for, or b.) begin to auto-reject non-working girls... You’ll write off regular girls as “too stuck up” or “too full of themselves.” At that point - the point where either your self-esteem falls off a cliff, or your empathy does - your ability to get women you don’t pay for goes down the toilet.
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Thoughts?
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